Presumably some enjoy it. I think you'd have to find one to ask. Anyone here want to own up?
Indeed, and more than you'd have thought. Some of them may even swear blind that they are appalled by such things, yet secretly harbour the desire to get stuck in. In fact, I guarantee it. Whether they will take the plunge or not is another thing. What people should appreciate is that everyone is different, and that what seems downright perverted to you, might be a weekend treat for me.
To be honest, to me, the idea of having sex with the same person for decades is incredible, I cannot quite understand how anyone can do it! Those that can do it, fair play, each to their own, it's not my place to look down my nose at what works for others.
Sad though it may be, some women get a very definite confidence boost when a gaggle of blokes are jostling to fuck them. Yes, they shouldn't have to throw themselves open to be used by all, but then again, in modern society, women are deemed "undesirable" if they aren't conventionally beautiful or are overweight, for example. I know lots of seriously obese women who would have no hope of being chatted up in a pub, yet who have varied and fulfilled sex lives with lots of men who aren't fussy about being third out of five. They don't get turned down because of their fat or their stretch marks and consequently are happy in themselves and get on with life as best they can. Sure, they should be watching their diet and getting healthy, but that could apply to us all. Meanwhile, life goes on.
There was a British TV documentary about it a few years ago. We watched it in the eager anticipation of a good laugh, it being a potentially funny subject an' all.
It was instead very sad. The women shown dogging were there more or less under duress from their male partners. The women were expected to service other men whom they didn't know and were obviously feeling humiliated. I felt sorry for them. It was NOT erotic; abusive, really.
None was enjoying it and they only seemed to be there because they were totally dominated.
Yes, I remember that and it was dismally sad, for all involved. However, I can tell you that there are other couples who, whilst indulging their D/s desires, get a real kick out of this sort of thing. There's no fucking way they are going to appear in a documentary though, disguises or not! I think that the people in that programme were...erm, less than average intelligence, shall we say, rather than being illustrative of those who enjoy different sex lives to the majority.
I know one particular lady who went from being a very strait-laced pillar of the community to being a real live-wire, for whom orally pleasuring 11 strangers in one evening is the norm, after she was "instructed" to do so by her Dominant partner. She left him not long afterwards because he couldn't keep up with her increasingly adventurous sexual desires! Actually, she still is the strait-laced pillar of the community, just one with a secret lurid sex life which sees her travelling up and down the country to clubs and parties. It's what fires her up, makes her feel alive, so who can criticise her? You only live once.
I myself have had an "unconventional" sex life for a number of years, and what I once thought purely the realm of porno fantasy, I can indulge in with very little notice or trouble to arrange. Oh, the things I have seen, the things I have done!
I've yet to, erm, come across any woman I thought was doing anything against her will or who was unhappy with what she was doing, and hope I never do. I have, however, seen the anguish on more than one hubby's face, as he finds the fantasy of having another man ravish his wife turns into the nightmare reality of watching her get properly seen-to.
Properly. At my leisure. And no, I don't feel guilty.
Be careful what you wish for folks, and don't even think about living out the fantasy until you've thought through the potential outcomes.
Incidentally, regarding dogging, it's actually more a gay thing. For straight men, the chances of finding any woman looking to play whilst parked up are incredibly slim, especially in one of the apparent dogging hot-spots. The thing is that when men get the scent of such a woman, it looks somewhat akin to the appearance of a zebra corpse on the Serengeti - the vultures swoop in from miles away, and they don't give a shit how many are already there, they ARE going to get involved. Even women who enjoy multiple men soon get pissed off with being mobbed, so successful dogging meets are usually pre-arranged.
FWIW, generally speaking, the kind of people who go to the trouble of finding a quiet private venue and inviting participants are usually quite fastidious about their sexual health - probably more so than your average Joe who goes into the local nightclub at weekends trying to pull Sharon or Tracey. I know that anyone trying to go in bareback would probably be strung up.
(There will, of course, be those who get their kicks from the risk of not just sex with multiple strangers, but without protection too. I cannot see them attracting too many regular sexual adventurers - the risk of an STI ruining future parties, club nights, gangbangs etc, not to mention being potentially lethal, would make most think twice before diving in. People talk, and I believe that if STIs were being passed around, they'd soon be smothered, as happened not so long back with a group of regular party-goers who swiftly identified and shut down a source of a particular infection. Must have been the kiss-of-death for their party scene, but they realised immediately that such dangers cannot be brushed under the carpet and drew attention to the problem. Sadly, the "porridge stirrers" probably go home to their faithful wives and infections may be undetected for a long time)
Those rare women who were out there playing with random multiple strangers gave up when the tabloids discovered dogging (or rather, when they discovered famous footballers dogging), and once quiet spots became like Picadilly Circus, with car-loads of blokes turning up, seriously expecting to get some action!
Men in dark carparks awaiting a woman to just turn up and go cock-crazy tend to inevitably get very poor eyesight, and will merrily proffer their family jewels to someone who is plainly another bloke in a wig, but then will claim that they can't be bi/gay. and that they believed it to be a female. Yeah, sure. (Their sexual health may be pretty dodgy too!)