My ex who i met in the early 00s used to see (from a young age) a black shape, fuzzy & described as an outline of a `man` When I met her the house she was living in at the time (id stated this i think in a previous thread) had a `presence` on the stairs, who we named `Sid`. As this presence was felt quite a lot we did discuss ghosts & past experiences, which in turn brought up my exes `fuzzy` visitor.
She mentioned how when she was about 14-15 her parents house had a long living room with patio doors at the end & how she had seen this dark shape appear in front of these doors & then fade (or move away). Her mother knew about this & would at certain times when my ex was quiet or `in the zone` would ask `is your visitor here Sarah`? (not her real name by the way) This was such a common occurrence that it was part of the family.
Moving on to when I met her, my parents lived not too far from Sarah & she`d come back to my parents house. On one of these occasions wed been upstairs in my bedroom & my room had a `cupboard` in the corner (a built in one) my ex would (if we where in the bedroom) always remind me that she `didn't like that cupboard`, why or who knows, but before id met my ex wed lived there for about 14 years & never experienced anything in the whole house, never mind this particular cupboard. Again my ex would never say why.....
This one night id gone downstairs to make a cuppa, at some point (seconds later) Sarah came down, she didn't `look right` , & I said something like `are you OK` she said shed been sat on my bed, watching T.V. when she was `spooked`.......& it was the feeling from the cupboard....she didn't like it & had come down to help me make the tea. I popped my head into the living room to ask my parents if they wanted a cuppa, & when i went back into the hallway (where Sarah was stood waiting) her face was `white as a sheet` (i can still remember he face / expression now).
Straight away i said you've seen `him` haven't you? she just said `yes` & described how shed seen the dark fuzzy shape at the end of our hallway, then it just moved through the wall (it must have been seconds).
That was really the only time i can remember her seeing `him` whilst i was with her (we where only together a few years). But I do wonder if she still sees `him` etc........I suppose she wouldn't be `spooked` by it so much really if it was quite frequent, (shes about 40 now).