The thing is, as with seeing colours or feeling pain, none of us can ever truly know what the other person's experience is like.
Colour is the way that our brains interpret a particular wave length of light. If I like a particular shade of green and you hate it (and assuming we have no especially good or bad memories associated with it) does that mean:
a) That we experience the same colour but react to it differently? Or...
b) Experience a different colour?
As for visualising things from memory, how clearly can you or I conjure up an image of a loved one, a friend, a familiar scene?
I find I can only bring a fleeting glance of a person to the edge of my perception. I could describe them to you from factual memory (height, hair colour and style, glasses/no glasses, build, etc.) but I cannot put their image in front of my mind's eye and describe it to you exactly as I see it. What colour are my stepdad's eyes? I have no idea, because I have never made a point of checking, and I cannot bring up a mental image of him and check!
However, with certain things, like simple mechanical assemblies, knots I use for boating, dance figures and steps, I can run through them in my head in quite a detailed way.
Sometimes, when I am bored, or preoccupied, or struggling to sleep, or just learning a new knot, I can tie the knot "in my head" and even do it in left handed or right handed form, or from different starting points. I don't "see" the rope, but I do "see" the shapes and movements.
I am sometimes the same with music. I (used to) play harmonica, and I play Anglo concertina most days. Especially when I am learning a new tune, and I can't remember the melody, I can usually visualise the sequence of button pushes and bellows movements. (The funny thing with learning a new tune from scratch is that I can play it 20 times in a practice session, but the next day, I sometimes need a reminder of how it starts!)
Some of this may be neurological (I don't have the sort of "wiring" that enables me to conjure up a clear fixed image of a familiar face or scene) but some of it is habit and practice (I have learned to approach knots in a systematic way, I am analytical about dance movements, I have practised doing arithmetic in my head).
Maybe I'm weird in this respect, maybe I'm about average. Until the last few decades, I suspect that no one ever asked these questions but just got on with life. Most people outside of academia and the psychological profession, and places like this forum, probably still don't ask.