Been a busy summer, lot of working abroad and travelling so haven't had a chance to recount this tale…
Was working in Jakarta for a few months and one night had gone out with a colleague and a couple of our interns. The conversation turned to the paranormal and weird stuff that had happened and slowly one of our interns began to explain how she could see ghosts.
We were in Northern Jakarta, near the old Dutch square and port. She explained that most of the ghosts she saw were dressed in old Dutch colonial outfits and often would just be standing looking sad. The bar we were in was quite dark and she had a particular way of looking out the corner of her eye at things or looking beyond you as she spoke to you which I had noticed already before this conversation. I pushed for more details, could they see her looking at them, did they communicate, etc… but she didn't give too much detail - without being evasive on the issue.
In the light of day I don't believe in these things but at night I certainly get the creeps. She explained she had always had the ability, as had her mother, but that she wanted to stop as it was starting to scare her. She also said we all have a spirit that is with us at all times and offered to describe mine - I declined as I knew I'd end up freaking myself out whatever she described.
Finally, she said she could pass her ability to me for a few moments so I could see what she could. Again I declined and after that we moved the conversation on, also because she mentioned she didn't want to upset or annoy the spirits and make them aware of us.
Now, I understand that she could have just been making this stuff up to scare us but she was a very level-headed intern and didn't seem the type to mess around like that. In the light of day I expect nothing would have happened if I had taken the offer to see through her eyes but there is a little of me that regrets not seeing what would have happened (the obvious fear being that it was real and once I'd seen things I'd not be able to unseen or stop seeing them) had I accepted her offer.
I also kind of regret not trying the cobra blood and satay...