We called it the Summer of Death, and while I know it wasn’t all about me, the only common element WAS me.
The last week in April, my long-time friend Pete’s stepfather died. The following Friday, my sister had her elderly dog put to sleep. That Monday, my cat Meowfur (who was 16) woke me up howling, and he was clearly dying. I tried to clean him up while I waited for my next-door-neighbor (my vet) to come over, and he bit me (HARD!) on the cheekbone, my throat just below my chin, and the ring finger on my left hand. I really didn’t pay much attention to that (although the bathroom was splattered with blood – it looked a crime scene), and we ended up having to put him to sleep. The vet tried to clean up my finger, but by the end of the day it was the size of about three of my fingers put together. Fortunately my face and chin did NOT get infected, and my doctor put me on this killer antibiotic, called Augmentin. (A little tip here. If your doctor ever wants to give you Augmentin, RUN LIKE HELL.) To its credit, it cleared up the infection in about two days, but it also made me so sick I lost 5 pounds and had the runs for 3 weeks. No kidding.
So, anyway…the week following all this drama, my friend Ray’s mother died. Then on the Saturday of Mother’s Day weekend, my friend Dolores’ and my friend George’s mothers died. On Mother’s Day, my friend Ruth Ann’s mother died. My nephew-in-law left my niece who was pregnant with their fifth son.
The week after that, my childhood friend Debbie lost her fight with breast cancer. That weekend, my brother’s childhood friend died of a heart attack. Two weeks after that, my friend Kris’ mother drowned. The day after that my friend Tim’s dad died.
I’m glad the year’s (almost) over. I guess I should just write a book.
*Thanks to Roger Clyne of the Peacemakers (and the Refreshments) for the fitting lyrics.
The last week in April, my long-time friend Pete’s stepfather died. The following Friday, my sister had her elderly dog put to sleep. That Monday, my cat Meowfur (who was 16) woke me up howling, and he was clearly dying. I tried to clean him up while I waited for my next-door-neighbor (my vet) to come over, and he bit me (HARD!) on the cheekbone, my throat just below my chin, and the ring finger on my left hand. I really didn’t pay much attention to that (although the bathroom was splattered with blood – it looked a crime scene), and we ended up having to put him to sleep. The vet tried to clean up my finger, but by the end of the day it was the size of about three of my fingers put together. Fortunately my face and chin did NOT get infected, and my doctor put me on this killer antibiotic, called Augmentin. (A little tip here. If your doctor ever wants to give you Augmentin, RUN LIKE HELL.) To its credit, it cleared up the infection in about two days, but it also made me so sick I lost 5 pounds and had the runs for 3 weeks. No kidding.
So, anyway…the week following all this drama, my friend Ray’s mother died. Then on the Saturday of Mother’s Day weekend, my friend Dolores’ and my friend George’s mothers died. On Mother’s Day, my friend Ruth Ann’s mother died. My nephew-in-law left my niece who was pregnant with their fifth son.
The week after that, my childhood friend Debbie lost her fight with breast cancer. That weekend, my brother’s childhood friend died of a heart attack. Two weeks after that, my friend Kris’ mother drowned. The day after that my friend Tim’s dad died.
I’m glad the year’s (almost) over. I guess I should just write a book.
*Thanks to Roger Clyne of the Peacemakers (and the Refreshments) for the fitting lyrics.