A detailed post, that merits a detailed response.
This can be very frustrating I appreciate. It has happened to me a few times and it's annoying. Feels a bit like "moderation by numbers" sometimes...not particularly intelligent..."Oh that says Rendlesham, I will merge it into the Rendlesham thread", ..
Right. "..not particularly intelligent"? Merging, moving, splitting are all done with care and attention. The way you imply we conduct thread management is like some badly-programmed AI rather than very experienced, knowledgeable people who make dozens of these judgement calls every day. We read every thread, understand the gist and vector of every one, and when it is sensible to do so we merge, move etc. We don't just do it for no reason.
..It is frustrating...and feels like you're being treated like a kid...a particularly thick one not qualified to know where there thread or post is best placed...
If you take things quite extraordinarily personally, or believe your message to be far more important than anyone else's and thus meriting its own thread then maybe. If, however, you have a degree of relative balance and are familiar with how this place works, then you'll probably accept it has been done for a good reason, ie to incorporate it within an ongoing discussion or to restart a dormant one.
...I always think that these decisions reduce the dynamism of forums, although sure - sometimes they are warranted.
For sometimes read "usually", or even "invariably".
But sometimes waiting a little bit of time, before things are moved it not a bad thing. There's no great danger...within a day or so the thread might have developed into something that indeed does warrant it's own thread...but maybe not, so then merge it.
I'll bear that in mind. For a day or two.
Maybe a little consultation between mods? Maybe a little consultation between the poster? There is no time bomb ticking. Better decisions get made and posters feel less aggrieved when they're treated like adults.
a) Mods do consult when there is a need to do so. In fact we frequently discuss whether or not to merge or split threads, and ALWAYS when closure is an option. You have no idea how much or little we discuss stuff.
b) We do sometimes consult the poster, but that's usually about the content (eg revealing too much personal information, bordering on flaming, advising when a post has been deleted (this last being relatively rare in itself, and again usually because it adds absolutely nothing to the discussion in a mainstream thread. )
c) the implication that we patronise or otherwise discredit the maturity of posters is.. interesting. I disagree.
BUT. It is what it is Definitelymaybe. You've signed up to the rules.
Yes.
They will run things how they want.
Yes.
If you can tolerate this then great, if you cannot then this board is not for you friend. Don't beat yourself or get upset about it - that will achieve nothing. It is what it is.
And once again, yes.
We run this place really, really well. We have done for two decades, outlasting all of the others, with a very strong core of members, and it has been noted on a number of occasions by a number of posters that we do so with an unusual amount of respect and cooperation. We have held the same basic moderation line for all of that time - I know, I have been here doing just that. Do we get it right 100% of the time? No. If we make mistakes do we admit it? Yes. Did we make any mistakes in this particular case? No, we did not.
Again, if there are issues with mods address them to me. Posting Barnum, pass-agg tracts helps nobody.