Yesterday was in York Minster gardens waiting for husband whilst he went to have a hair cut and was people watching to pass the time (firmly putting my phone away). And it struck me how much people are living their lives at a remove now. Fair dos, I was sitting behind one of the most spectacular medieval structures in the world, and a massive tourist trap, on a nice summer's day so people are going to be photoing things. But it struck me how people were doing stuff like photoing themselves using a selfie stick with the Minster in the background, then not going into it, or going closer to look at it, but walking on, still glued to their phones.
Like, you've paid maybe hundreds even thousands to be here - why not, you know, be here? Everything only experienced secondhand via a lens. Everything documented for TikTok, Insta or FB (depending on age) yet not having actually been in the place properly, if that makes sense?
I only saw two tourists genuinely looking at stuff - two middle aged German women - whipped their phones out quickly to photo some leaves of all things, but then put them away and otherwise, were fascinated by the trees, going up to them, looking at them, talking about them. Everyone else, might as well have been watching a film of York Minster.
My kids actually used a TikTok account they made to fund them travelling all over Europe, watching their favourite team play, which is a constructive use of social media, I think. (They weren't making content when they travelled). But they made the content to fund doing the thing, then did the thing. I think this is less common now as people are so busy documenting their travel experiences they're not much in the moment, any more.
There's probably many factors playing in to why we're getting less fresh, firsthand accounts of phenomena. But it's maybe harder to share experiences now as the first question you'd get if you recounted a recent experience would be: "Why didn't you film it on your phone?"