queenofwands
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My mother is 90 years old and lives with me ,as I'm her full time carer. She has been completely bed bound, since suffering a fall , a year ago.
Just this morning , after she'd finished her breakfast , I heard her shouting the name of an old friend of hers. I went to see what was going on and she asked me where Norma had gone. I told her that Norma has not been here. She would not believe me and was insistent that Norma had been in her room , right in front of her and had been talking to her.
I really thought my mother was starting to lose her marbles and was clearly confused. I told her that Norma definitely had not been here, and suggested , she must have nodded off, and had a dream about Norma. My mother got really angry , at this point and insisted that Norma must be in the living room and demanded to know why I was preventing her from seeing her.
I suggested we call Norma , so I got the phone and dialled Norma's number. It had been disconnected. I explained this to my mother, but stubbornly , she would not accept this and demanded to call the number herself. She got the same dead number.
It dawned on me , at this point , that Norma must have died or gone into an old folks home . I checked the obituaries and sure enough , I discovered that Norma had passed away in January. I explained this to my mother and read the obituary for her . She said she understood now , and That Norma had paid her a visit from spirit , to say goodbye .
Just this morning , after she'd finished her breakfast , I heard her shouting the name of an old friend of hers. I went to see what was going on and she asked me where Norma had gone. I told her that Norma has not been here. She would not believe me and was insistent that Norma had been in her room , right in front of her and had been talking to her.
I really thought my mother was starting to lose her marbles and was clearly confused. I told her that Norma definitely had not been here, and suggested , she must have nodded off, and had a dream about Norma. My mother got really angry , at this point and insisted that Norma must be in the living room and demanded to know why I was preventing her from seeing her.
I suggested we call Norma , so I got the phone and dialled Norma's number. It had been disconnected. I explained this to my mother, but stubbornly , she would not accept this and demanded to call the number herself. She got the same dead number.
It dawned on me , at this point , that Norma must have died or gone into an old folks home . I checked the obituaries and sure enough , I discovered that Norma had passed away in January. I explained this to my mother and read the obituary for her . She said she understood now , and That Norma had paid her a visit from spirit , to say goodbye .