Vida Loca
Devoted Cultist
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I dont know if anyone else experiences this but it has happened to me a lot over the years. It cant be down to coincidence nor can it be put down to being deliberate in any way. I seem to end up in buildings years later that were opposite ones I was in before some years earlier. Also I feel as though I am in a mirror image of my life as to what it should be when this happens. I will try and explain if I can as it is most odd and hard to describe really. I hope someone else has experienced it as it will make me feel better about it as it unsettles me. Here are some examples.
Many years ago I worked in an office in the town centre. I would often look out across the road at a house with a little garden and wonder who lived there as they seemed an 'arty' type of family with a couple of children. Many years later after I had left the office my daughter bought the house and I ended up looking out across the road to the office.
Another time in a former life I was working in an office in the next town. Our tea room was at the back of the building and if you looked out of the window further along was another building with windows that jutted out too. I often looked across and wondered what went on in there while sipping my coffee. Anyway some years later after leaving my job a lot of things changed for me and I started doing voluntary work in my home town. I would sometimes go on courses and attend events all over the country. I was then selected to do a course of training in the next town right in the building opposite to my old office. I was then able to look out of the back window at the tea room. It was like a role reversal if that makes sense. I found it all rather weird as it had been some years since I had worked there and a lot of changes had happened in my life.
I live in a flat that is opposite a pub that we have been regulars in for may years. I used to live in a house but had to leave and this flat was the only suitable one I could find in an emergency. I often used to look up out of the pub window and wonder who lived there etc. I didn't expect what happened to my house to cause me to move after 16 years and didn't intentionally create the situation if that makes sense.
There are other incidents of this and some not building related that are hard to explain. It is as though people I was friendly with have stolen my lives/careers and their now lives should be mine had I not met them but I am in opposite situations and negative ones. They aren't friends anymore and weren't genuine friends. I expect this sort of thing has happened to others but it is weird and unsettling to feel your life is a reflection of what it should be or could be.
Many years ago I worked in an office in the town centre. I would often look out across the road at a house with a little garden and wonder who lived there as they seemed an 'arty' type of family with a couple of children. Many years later after I had left the office my daughter bought the house and I ended up looking out across the road to the office.
Another time in a former life I was working in an office in the next town. Our tea room was at the back of the building and if you looked out of the window further along was another building with windows that jutted out too. I often looked across and wondered what went on in there while sipping my coffee. Anyway some years later after leaving my job a lot of things changed for me and I started doing voluntary work in my home town. I would sometimes go on courses and attend events all over the country. I was then selected to do a course of training in the next town right in the building opposite to my old office. I was then able to look out of the back window at the tea room. It was like a role reversal if that makes sense. I found it all rather weird as it had been some years since I had worked there and a lot of changes had happened in my life.
I live in a flat that is opposite a pub that we have been regulars in for may years. I used to live in a house but had to leave and this flat was the only suitable one I could find in an emergency. I often used to look up out of the pub window and wonder who lived there etc. I didn't expect what happened to my house to cause me to move after 16 years and didn't intentionally create the situation if that makes sense.
There are other incidents of this and some not building related that are hard to explain. It is as though people I was friendly with have stolen my lives/careers and their now lives should be mine had I not met them but I am in opposite situations and negative ones. They aren't friends anymore and weren't genuine friends. I expect this sort of thing has happened to others but it is weird and unsettling to feel your life is a reflection of what it should be or could be.