Gizmos Mama
Ephemeral Spectre
- Joined
- Sep 23, 2015
- Messages
- 426
- Location
- Southern Alberta, Canada
there is no onus on you to give anyone a ride, especially if you are alone and unarmed.
I agree. I wasn't completely defenseless. I always have 2 knives within arms reach in the car. One a 20" machete. (See, Tarantino re: my life.)
And I'm not trying to trivialize it, just use a bit of dark humor to deal with what I know was a deadly serious situation. And a traumatic one, probably more so for me than him! Because, if he did wake up, he won't remember a thing. And get to deal with a months long series of shots, and reliving the incident in my head over and over.
And the one point I would argue, is that I happen to believe in Karma, as well as the sanctity of life. So, did I interfere with his Karma, his getting what he deserved (?), or did I bring about his ability to get rid of some of that terrible Karma he has accumulated in this life, by "repenting" and stopping his shitty behaviour?
Or did I do a terrible thing, by giving him the chance to hurt other innocent people, which he has proven to be capable of. How will I feel if I find out he does more kiddie porn crap?
Or maybe this whole episode was all for me to reap hoards of good Karma, and become an Enlightened One, and finally pass beyond this realm of suffering?
That's why this is all so confusing me and making me doubtful.
I'm not saying I wish I had done nothing, and I did what I did, so it's all moot anyway.
I just don't know what to feel at the moment.