Never really knew what a sociopath was, let alone suspected I had a family member with that description.
My younger brother was always a charmer, charismatic personality, spoiled rotten, always laughing and joking, the first person you would invite to your party if you wanted to have fun!
As we grew older, I noticed he always seemed to have trouble keeping a job, or a girlfriend, or money, or an apartment, his life was always in chaos. I got him a job in a large company where I had a good position - next thing you know, he was fired for theft and I was called in for questioning, they thought I was in on it. I didn't even know what he was up to, he was constantly in trouble.
My husband never liked my brother, and warned me repeatedly about him, but I just turned a blind eye to it. My brother got himself a job as a superintendent in a large garden apartment complex, with a free apartment as part of the job. Of course, one day he showed up on our doorstep, got fired from his job (too much drinking and drugs) and lost the apartment. Softy that I am, I allowed him to move into our rented small house. Hubby and I were going on a vacation down to the shore for a few weeks and thought he could look after the house while we were away.
No one can imagine our shock upon returning, all of our antique furniture was gone, my jewelry, cash, living room and bedroom furniture, everything was gone, except for a few items of clothing. He had sold everything and took off.
When I think about it now, I cannot believe that I looked into those eyes and failed to see the sociopath lurking there.