AnonyJ
Captainess Sensible
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- Nov 1, 2015
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It's a thing. Submissiveness and servitude (often with a financial aspect) - an offshoot or another form of S&M when it comes down do it. There is sometimes a level of humiliation and loss of power through domination that is the appeal. That being said, sometimes, it can just be as simple as fun roleplaying.
It sure is! As long as it's all adults practising 'SSC' [safe, sane, consensual] whatever rocks your boat is OK
I may just have encountered this 'other world' for a while in my past, before getting more wonkified and settling down (again). I'm not sure but maybe @LordRsmacker might have been someone I met, along the way!
The Internet has transformed the way people communicate kink-wise - I think it's made it a lot safer - and it's normally about the sexual mind-f**k rather than the physical act, anyhow. Role-playing, scenario-playing, getting dressed up et al is quite fun - especially in a big party setting where everyone around you is into the same stuff.
I remember the acronymn YKINMKBYKIOK Your kink is not my kink but your kink is OK. I met some superbly lovely people, real rocks of support in other ways, and it's made me much more understanding and tolerant. If it's between fully consenting adults, behind closed doors, doesn't disturb the neighbours or upset the horses then anything goes in my view.
I also met the most pierced lady in the world on one of my excursions to a certain London club - she was utterly delightful when we met in the smoking area. There were also a human ashtray....