Sorry folks - I shall try and be serious.
It is the case that stellar distances are immense; but time has been around for a while as well. There's the "infinite number of monkeys...for an infinite amount of time" issue. Maybe there's been enough aliens and enough time for them to have visited us, and passed on elsewhere. It's also possible they're still here.
There are indeed tens of thousands of UFO reports - some of which come from reputable sources, e.g. Jimmy Carter for example. Some of which can be rationally explained; some of which might be explained; some of which, it would seem, cannot. Not only do 'reports' of aliens and UFOs occur in modern times, but also in the more historical record. Folklore and legend record strange tales of all manner of weird beasties and events. I think there's enough circumstantial evidence to suggest...
Could it not also be a human need for there to be 'something' else that exists out there, and, alas, there isn't.
For me, there IS life out there in the sweping expanse of the Universe; though I cannot honestly say I've ever (knowingly) met an alien. If I ever do, I just hope I have some beer-money in my pocket, and there's a close by, welcoming and comfortable hostelry with a decent pint.