Perhaps they don't want to or need to contact us, I have no doubt that other races and civilizations exist out there, but I believe they prefer to observe rather than interact
I rather suspect that our best hope is that aliens would value knowledge enough to remain hands-off and simply observe us without interfering.
After all, what can we predict about alien psychology? Movies tend to depict aliens as either mindlessly hostile, and intent on wiping the human race out, or wise benevolent God-like creatures who have evolved past hostility and simply want to share their wisdom. What's more likely to be true? One answer is that 'they're aliens so we can never understand their motives'.
But I don't think that's altogether true. We can predict a few things about aliens. There will, for examples, be constraints on the behaviour of biological aliens (ignoring for the moment the suggestions that we might encounter mechanical AI aliens created by long dead species).
Biological aliens will have evolved in an ecosystem that must, by definition, be controlled by the principles of natural selection. Humans exist today because our ancestors were good at surviving. Natural selection favours survival traits. If you're good at passing your genes along, the next generation will have more of your genes. Aliens will have been shaped by the same processes. They will have been selected over millions of years as competent survivors.
So the real question is - what sort of behavioural traits favour survival? Answer that and you can predict some things about aliens.
One thing that recurs frequently is in-group co-operation. Huge numbers of species develop as social animals, and social species tend to co-operate. That sounds encouraging, but the other side of the coin is that social species rarely co-operate outside the group.
Ants have wonderful complex societies. Inside the nest every individual has a role. - And ant nests frequently go to war with other ant nests. You co-operate with your kin, not 'those other buggers'.
Another thing that helps survival is exploiting available resources. If it's there - take it.
Luckily, mindless hostility is not a survival trait. Killing for killing's sake is a waste of energy and potential resources.
So, in summary, aliens are more likely to adopt a 'what's in it for me' approach to other species. Aliens visiting Earth would probably not go out of their way to eradicate humans unless there was some advantage to be gained from doing that, which of course is possible.
And unconditional benevolence is equally unlikely. Benevolence is reserved for the in-group.
Our best hope, as I said, is that they would consider the knowledge to be gained from studying us is valuable enough for them to remain hands-off.