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I have always been bemused that ghosts are reported as turning up at people's bedsides. To me it seems perfectly logical that the person was either just falling asleep and misread the surroundings and external stimulae or had just woken from a dream and retained the image with the eyes now open.
Now I am not so sure.
Last february I was lying awake, trying to get off to sleep despite my husband's snoring. I was lying on my left side, facing my husband. Without movement the small figure of what might have been a female figure suddenly appeared, standing at the top of the bed, next to my husband and looking ahead at the wall. As I looked for just a few startled seconds, I only took in the very bright light it emitted and the appearance of a cloth round the head and shoulders. The rest of the figure was obscured by the bed.
Not unaturally I dived under the covers then woke my husband for some comfort. I asked him to check my heart rate which was thumping as I had never woken from a dream in such a state of fright.
About three or four days later it happened again on the same side of the bed. I'm convinced I was awake. This time the figure was blurred but appeared to be facing me directly across the bed. Same routine, I woke the husband, very frightened.
I decided either this was what I believe is termed a hypnogogic experience, (a dream experienced moments after falling asleep?) or pressure on the side of my eye causing a Migraine-like flash of light that my confused brain tried to make sense of.
A week later I was on my back in bed, trying to fall asleep again! If you are married to a snorer, I need say no more. This time there was no light coming from the 'visitor'. In a bedroom that was absolutely black I saw the figure of a fat, middle-aged naked man with close-cropped hair take a few steps towards the end of my bed, looking straight at me all the while. Nothing blurred or mystical about this guy! I let out an enormous scream. No need to wake the husband this time.
So I could forget the Migraine, eye-ball pressure theory, this was hypnogogic then.
On March 9th my mother phoned to say that she had been waiting a few weeks to confirm some tests she had undergone. Sadly, she had terminal cancer and would not have long to live.
A friend, who is involved in spiritualism thought these visitations were linked with my mother's distress that she was experiencing during that time. When she was dying she said she had 'seen herself' standing at the end of the bed looking back at herself. This was in daylight.
I do not think this has a bearing, but my husband's first wife died in our bedroom (of cancer) six years ago.
Classical response can only be:"You were dreaming, mate", but the odd thing is that I have never experienced anything like it in 52 years.
Now I am not so sure.
Last february I was lying awake, trying to get off to sleep despite my husband's snoring. I was lying on my left side, facing my husband. Without movement the small figure of what might have been a female figure suddenly appeared, standing at the top of the bed, next to my husband and looking ahead at the wall. As I looked for just a few startled seconds, I only took in the very bright light it emitted and the appearance of a cloth round the head and shoulders. The rest of the figure was obscured by the bed.
Not unaturally I dived under the covers then woke my husband for some comfort. I asked him to check my heart rate which was thumping as I had never woken from a dream in such a state of fright.
About three or four days later it happened again on the same side of the bed. I'm convinced I was awake. This time the figure was blurred but appeared to be facing me directly across the bed. Same routine, I woke the husband, very frightened.
I decided either this was what I believe is termed a hypnogogic experience, (a dream experienced moments after falling asleep?) or pressure on the side of my eye causing a Migraine-like flash of light that my confused brain tried to make sense of.
A week later I was on my back in bed, trying to fall asleep again! If you are married to a snorer, I need say no more. This time there was no light coming from the 'visitor'. In a bedroom that was absolutely black I saw the figure of a fat, middle-aged naked man with close-cropped hair take a few steps towards the end of my bed, looking straight at me all the while. Nothing blurred or mystical about this guy! I let out an enormous scream. No need to wake the husband this time.
So I could forget the Migraine, eye-ball pressure theory, this was hypnogogic then.
On March 9th my mother phoned to say that she had been waiting a few weeks to confirm some tests she had undergone. Sadly, she had terminal cancer and would not have long to live.
A friend, who is involved in spiritualism thought these visitations were linked with my mother's distress that she was experiencing during that time. When she was dying she said she had 'seen herself' standing at the end of the bed looking back at herself. This was in daylight.
I do not think this has a bearing, but my husband's first wife died in our bedroom (of cancer) six years ago.
Classical response can only be:"You were dreaming, mate", but the odd thing is that I have never experienced anything like it in 52 years.