merricat
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Has anyone else experienced anything like this? It strikes me that it most likely isn’t all that uncommon, but I haven’t actually met anyone who can relate to it in my everyday life.
Ever since I was a young child, I have experienced a very strong and almost painful sense of ‘belonging’ somewhere else. In this case, I would have to say Scandinavia, although Norway, Sweden and Finland seem to merge together for me here (having never actually travelled to any of these places, it would possibly be deemed more appropriate to say Scandinavia, so please humour me!).
It’s a curious sensation: I recall being around 4 yrs old, travelling in the back of my parents car at night time, watching the surrounding lights zip past, the glow of lights in the distance...and feeling this very strong, painful longing for ‘home’. All that was certain to me at that time was that this home was not my usual place of habitation, but somewhere colder and ‘far away’. This sensation recurred fairly frequently, and as I grew older and came to know a little more about the world at large, it seemed that Scandinavia, especially Norway, was the ‘place’ that I had been feeling all those years.
It isn’t easy to describe this, it does look a tad silly written down! But I can only tell it as I know it, if you see what I mean.
As an adult, it only became stronger, as in I did not grow out of it.
Now that I am more aware of these countries, the ‘lights’ of my memory and associated sensations, even songs, books, paintings, still (often) quite achingly draw me there. The sensation has grown rather than diminished as I have learned more about the culture, art, landscape, etc. My partner often laughs and talks of the lack of light with a shudder, but this concept delights me, fills me with a sense of completion, as optimal somehow - I am an illustrator, and have always (not entirely consciously) tended to explore this via my work.
As silly as it sounds, I can’t deny it, but have no real explanation for why this has been with me for so long.
Has anyone else ever experienced such a strong association with something that ought to be unknown to them? It is too easy to suggest past lives, but this doesn’t seem sufficient to me, although my mind is always open!
One day, I may Visit
Ever since I was a young child, I have experienced a very strong and almost painful sense of ‘belonging’ somewhere else. In this case, I would have to say Scandinavia, although Norway, Sweden and Finland seem to merge together for me here (having never actually travelled to any of these places, it would possibly be deemed more appropriate to say Scandinavia, so please humour me!).
It’s a curious sensation: I recall being around 4 yrs old, travelling in the back of my parents car at night time, watching the surrounding lights zip past, the glow of lights in the distance...and feeling this very strong, painful longing for ‘home’. All that was certain to me at that time was that this home was not my usual place of habitation, but somewhere colder and ‘far away’. This sensation recurred fairly frequently, and as I grew older and came to know a little more about the world at large, it seemed that Scandinavia, especially Norway, was the ‘place’ that I had been feeling all those years.
It isn’t easy to describe this, it does look a tad silly written down! But I can only tell it as I know it, if you see what I mean.
As an adult, it only became stronger, as in I did not grow out of it.
Now that I am more aware of these countries, the ‘lights’ of my memory and associated sensations, even songs, books, paintings, still (often) quite achingly draw me there. The sensation has grown rather than diminished as I have learned more about the culture, art, landscape, etc. My partner often laughs and talks of the lack of light with a shudder, but this concept delights me, fills me with a sense of completion, as optimal somehow - I am an illustrator, and have always (not entirely consciously) tended to explore this via my work.
As silly as it sounds, I can’t deny it, but have no real explanation for why this has been with me for so long.
Has anyone else ever experienced such a strong association with something that ought to be unknown to them? It is too easy to suggest past lives, but this doesn’t seem sufficient to me, although my mind is always open!
One day, I may Visit