:lol: Grandparents, even funnier dead than alive!
On one of the handful of occasions that I've been to a Spiri church, I was apparently given a public apology by my nasty old grandfather, who'd been horrible to me in life.
Erm, yeah, thanks and all that, Grandad, but your're
dead now. I forgot about you years ago.
The reason 'ordinary' people get messages/visits, as I've had it explained to me, is that
things have to be right.
As an analogy, if you go to town on the bus, you have to have your coat and shoes on, your money in hand, and be at the bus stop on time.
Whereas if your mate goes past in a car, you can get a lift, much quicker, for free.
Of course, a really clever person would pay all their bills and do the shopping online, so they'd just stay at home instead.