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I don't believe there is a thread on this so I thought I'd start one on the back of this bizarre case from Edinburgh at the weekend.

Edinburgh Evening News (needs registration)

POLICE said today they feared for the safety of a kidnapped four-year-old girl after it emerged her mother was a follower of black magic.

Nigerian Ogonna Topple snatched daughter Daniella from her father after an access visit in Edinburgh on Saturday afternoon.

Detectives said today Mrs Topple practised the Voodoo-like African cult Juju, which has been linked to the deaths and abuse of a number of children in London.

They have now called in specialist officers from the Metropolitan Police to help in the hunt for Daniella.

Detective Inspector Wallace Campbell said police were "concerned" about 29-year-old Mrs Topple's links with members of the Nigerian community she may have met in London. Officers are also concerned about Mrs Topple's mental state and fear Daniella may be in danger.

Airports and ports throughout the UK have been put on alert amid fears she may try to flee to Nigeria.

A warrant has been put out for her arrest for breaking the Scottish court order which granted custody of Daniella to her father Brian. The order was issued only one day before Mrs Topple, known as Jane, vanished with her child after a day out with her father.

She was last spotted in Arboretum Road, near the Botanic Garden on Saturday at 2.30pm.

Police have also said that they are worried about Mrs Topple's mental state due to the anxiety of this situation.

Detective Inspector Campbell said: "This case is causing us increasing concern. We know of factors which may make it difficult for her to cope. She may be very anxious.

"We have also uncovered her interest in African spiritual ritualism.

"The wee girl will be frightened and confused by this set of circumstances. It would have caused her a lot of anxiety and disruption.

"There may be someone out there who has helped Jane. They must come forward. We know that they have been assisted to get away from the Bruntsfield area. It may have been a taxi driver or someone else going about their business who took them to the Inverleith area on Saturday.

Detective Inspector Campbell said Mrs Topple's interest in African rituals was "causing us concern" and is "an area we are looking at".

He added that officers were worried that Daniella could be harmed as a result of the ties to the black magic faith.

He said: "It's a concern Jane may well have associates she met in London between October 4 and October 15. We are investigating that possibility."

Mr Topple, a 48-year-old telecoms worker, is said to be "torn apart" by his daughter's disappearance but police say he is coping under the circumstances.

Daniella is described as dark skinned, around 3ft 6in tall, with long shoulder-length brown curly hair.

She was wearing a pink cardigan, a purple cord dress with flowers, and red and white trainers when she was snatched.

Mrs Topple is described as 5ft 6in tall, dark skinned and of Nigerian descent, with black curly hair. She was wearing brown trousers, a denim top, a dark-brown cord hat and a leather necklace with a bullet-shaped pendant.

Many in Nigeria believe in the power of Juju, a blend of mystic ritual and traditional African belief. Some believe that by sacrificing humans and using their body parts in ceremonies they will become rich and powerful. The Metropolitan Police revealed in June a trade in black boys being used as human sacrifices in London churches.

The research into missing black boys in London began after the torso of a five-year-old boy, known as 'Adam', was found floating in the Thames in September 2001.
The weirdest thing about this is that the father let the fact that he was "stuck in traffic" stop him going after this mad child sacrificing woman. Hmm let me see, shall I risk upsetting some other drivers to save my child? Nah. Some besmirching of names going on here I think. And this I think pretty much sums up this sort of thing. Poor kids.

Readers will be pleased to hear the mother has handed herself in and the child is safe and sound.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/scotland/4382166.stm
 
This was another one a few weeks ago. A woman dies in her flat and her little boy is left alone for up to six weeks. There is no mention of where the family members now involved in the tug of "love" were for those six weeks, particularly as the mother was on methadone (but by all accounts looked after the kid well). :(

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/scotland/4368734.stm
A toddler trapped in an Edinburgh flat with the body of his mother could have survived alone for six weeks.

Three-year-old Michael McGarrity was found emaciated, dehydrated and barely able to stand last Saturday evening.

It was initially believed he had survived for two weeks, but detectives have now said his mother Anne Marie, 33, was last seen alive on 1 September.

It was thought Michael had survived on crisps and fruit juice after the death of his mother.

Police have said they are waiting for the results of further tests before they can confirm when or how Ms McGarrity died.

Plea for information

Investigators have said they want anyone who may have seen the woman after the start of September to get in touch with them.

Michael was discovered when police broke into the fifth floor flat in the Leith district of the capital.

The boy's grandmother Eleanor McGarrity said she had alerted officers after staff at Michael's nursery became worried about him and phoned her.

She was reported to have described the boy as "like a skeleton" and very weak when he was found at the flat in North Fort Street.

Michael was being treated at the Royal Hospital for Sick Children in Edinburgh.

Lothian and Borders Police said there were no suspicious circumstances surrounding his mother's death.
http://news.scotsman.com/archive.cfm?id=2151312005 (may need registration)
A THREE-year-old boy who survived for more than a month at home alone with his mother's dead body is to stay with a foster family until a decision has been made about his long-term care.

Michael McGarrity, who was released last night from the Sick Children's Hospital in Edinburgh, where he was being treated for dehydration, lived on scraps of food after his mother, Anne-Marie, died suddenly at their home in Leith.

It is understood that a tug-of-love battle over who is to care for him, between his grandmother, Eleanor McGarrity, and his father, Jason Nolan, has yet to be resolved.

The once "chubby" boy was very dehydrated and described as "looking like a skeleton" when he was found at the council flat on 15 October.

He was discovered only when officers from Lothian and Borders Police forced their way into his home, after concerned nursery staff contacted Michael's grandmother and she raised the alarm.

Initial reports suggested that Anne-Marie, 33, had been dead for a fortnight, but subsequent inquiries by police and the city council have led to the theory that she may have died earlier than that.

Mike Grieve, from the hospital, said: "Nurses and doctors have told me that they have been amazed by his character and determination.

"We have been very pleased by his progress, and he is well enough to leave hospital."
 
Ok. Was it only my mind that assumed the thread title was a euphemism?
 
:lol: - hmmm, how can I misconstrue this further.....ah...you mean like a cheap version of the Love Boat??? :?
 
Cheap? The solo voyages are free.

PB (troubled by the mental image of Ellen MacArthur going round the horn)
 
Naughty boys!

This story has been making the headlines here for several days now. A 12 year old girl abducted from Scotland and taken to Pakistan where she is to be forced to marry a 25 year old man.

Scotsman

AN INTERNATIONAL hunt has been launched for a 12-year-old girl after she was allegedly abducted from her home in Stornoway and taken to Pakistan, amid reports she is to be married to a man of 25.

Molly Campbell went missing from school on Friday. It is believed she was taken by her father and elder sister and flew with them to Lahore.

Police say they want to reunite the girl with her mother, Louise Campbell, her legal guardian.

Last night reports quoted Molly's grandmother as saying she feared the schoolgirl had been taken to become a child bride.

Violet Robertson, 67, said: "It's just terrible. Molly is only a little girl. It's an arranged marriage.

"She doesn't know the man. He's 25. Molly doesn't want to go to Pakistan. She wants to stay with her mum."

Only she wasn't..

BBC

Molly Campbell told a media conference in Lahore, Pakistan, that she left Scotland of her own free will.

Northern Constabulary has submitted a report to the procurator fiscal following its inquiries into the case.

Molly, who asked to be called by her Islamic name Misbah Iram Ahmed Rana, said she wanted to stay in Pakistan.

Her mother and legal guardian, Louise Campbell, had made an emotional appeal for the return of her daughter.

Ms Campbell said in a statement issued by a spokesperson that she was not going to say anything except that she was acting in the best interests of the child, and pursuing the proper line to get Molly back.

She denied that she had been forced to leave home because her family in Lahore had made plans for her to undergo an arranged marriage.

The schoolgirl said: "It was my own choice, my sister came to see me and I asked her, can I go with her, because I was not allowed to see my family. I just went with my sister."

Asked if she would like to stay in Pakistan or return to the UK, she said: "I would like to stay here in Pakistan forever. And my name isn't Molly, it is Misbah."

Molly added: "I knew my mum would miss me, but I missed my family and it was hard. If I live with my dad I can still see my mum."

At the moment it looks like the girl will be forced to move back to Scotland against her will.
 
Weirdly enough, the Private eye seems to be taking allegations of christian abuse by africans in london with the same pinch of salt as they used for SRA cases.
 
The poor lass is to be made to go back to her mum. Putting aside all the allegations and demands made by her parents, it seems to me she would be better off with her father, brothers and sister rather than alone with just her mum. Why do people do this to their kids? Its not like arguing over the CD collection is it?

BBC

Schoolgirl Misbah Rana must return to her mother in Scotland, a judge in Pakistan has ruled.

The 12-year-old has been at the centre of a custody battle after Misbah, also known as Molly Campbell, travelled to Pakistan to be with her father.

Lesley Philips the lawyer for Misbah's mother, Louise Campbell, said she was pleased with the ruling.

However, her father Sajad Ahmed Rana said his daughter was "devastated" by the decision.

The judge at the high court in Lahore ruled that Misbah must be handed over to the custody of the British High Commission within the next seven days.

Speaking outside the court in Lahore, her father said he will be seeking legal advice about lodging an appeal.

He said: "I was very surprised and shocked by this decision.

"Misbah is very devastated, she was crying, she is very upset.

"She doesn't want to go back to Scotland, she wants to stay here in Pakistan."

Ms Philips welcomed the court's decision to follow a protocol between Pakistan and the UK on the handling of custody cases.
 
I think that in this case Misbah genuinely wants to stay in Pakistan , and not return to Scotland. I know it is tough for the mother , but if she really wants her daughter's happiness, then she should just allow her to stay in Pakistan- that would prove her love to her daughter.
 
Yes, it seems pretty cut and dried. I can see why there should be an agreement between here and Pakistan to return children as so many are taken every year but I don't see the point in shunting the poor girl about when she was not kidnapped in the first place.

I've been trying to find some sort of psychological analysis of this sort of thing online but can't. :roll:
 
My understanding of it is that there is an agreement for the child to be returned to the country that the custody decision was made in.

The Pakistan judge was not to decide on residency for Mishba but on wether a ruling by the court of sessions in Edinburgh granting interm residency with her mother prior to a final decision was breached by taking her to Pakistan which it was. There is no reason why a final decision of the court could place her in Pakistan with her father.
 
Hmm, yes I think you are probably right.

The closest I have been able to find to an analysis is this article in The Scotsman (which-irritatingly-has insisted on calling her Molly Campbell throughout. Campbell is just the name of her mothers boyfriend)

The last bit seems to sum it up pretty well.

In particular, she needs to make that decision away from people who want to use her as a pawn in a wider political debate about diversity and the clash of cultures. Misbah is not, after all, just a potent symbol of the widening gulf between East and West, but a little girl whose childhood has already been greatly disrupted by her parents' inability to communicate.

The danger is that this case becomes so overburdened with global, political significance, we overlook its more prosaic, domestic message: that when it comes to messy, acrimonious divorces, many of us seem to be mired in self-pity, and virtually incapable of putting our children first.
 
In public, Molly wore purple ... but two hours later The Times found her in a black burka in a madrassa linked to the Taleban
Zahid Hussain in Islamabad and David Lister

Mother drops her claim for custody
Father says she has left his home





Molly Campbell in Islamabad yesterday. Later, she spoke to The Times wearing a black burka (T. Mughal/EPA)

Molly Campbell, the 12-year-old girl at the centre of an international custody battle, is wearing a burka and living in a religious seminary suspected of harbouring Islamic militants, The Times has learnt.
Barely four months after fleeing her mother’s home in the Outer Hebrides to live with her father in Pakistan, Molly, who wants to be known by her Islamic name Misbah Rana, has enrolled at the Jamia Hafsa madrassa in Islamabad, known for its pro-Taleban views and suspected links to al-Qaeda.

Just two hours after facing the press yesterday dressed in a traditional purple headscarf and shalwar kameez, she spoke to The Times at an office at the madrassa, with her face only partially visible behind a black burka. Surrounded by officials at the madrassa and appearing slightly overwhelmed by her surroundings, she spoke briefly about the latest twist in the custody battle between her parents.



Molly’s mother, Louise, has given up the fight for her daughter’s return because of the strain it has put on her health, it was disclosed yesterday.

Molly did not talk about her new education, but Sajad Rana, her father, confirmed that his daughter had moved out of his home in Lahore to study at the seminary. Admitting that he did not know when she would be back, he said: “She is a grown person, she is an adult. I would have liked her to be near me, but she wants to study Islam and she has joined this group for her education.”

He added: “The last time we were in Islamabad she spent a day at the madrassa, but now she’s made up her mind and she’s going to join it.”

The Jamia Hafsa madrassa is affiliated to Islamabad’s Lal Masjid, or Red Mosque, which has been repeatedly accused by President Musharraf’s Government of providing shelter to Islamic militants wanted on terrorism charges. Both the madrassa and mosque were raided after the London bombings of July 7, 2005, when Tony Blair called on Pakistan to crack down on radical Islamic schools.

The clerics who teach there include Mullah Abdul Rashid Ghazi, who has praised Osama bin Laden and has described his students as “the local Taleban”. He has said that Muslims are “obligated” to rise up in holy war against Americans in Islamic countries occupied by US troops.

The Lal mosque was also raided in 2004 by police looking for six clerics who issued a fatwa declaring that Pakistani soldiers who died in operations against al-Qaeda militants did not deserve an Islamic burial.

The Lal mosque, the oldest in Islamabad, is run by Jamiat Ulema-e-Islam, a pro-Taleban party and part of the powerful Muttahida Majlis-e-Amal religious alliance that rules the Pakistan North West Frontier province.

Molly’s father said that his daughter had decided to attend the seminary after meeting human rights activists in Islamabad at a demonstration last month organised by the Islamic Centre for Research and Defence of Human Rights, which called for the Government to release suspected terrorists. Asked whether he knew that the Jamia Hafsa madrassa, which teaches about 3,500 girls aged 5 to 20, had been accused of harbouring terrorists, Mr Rana said: “I don’t know about that. What concerns me is whether my daughter is happy. If she is happy in Islamabad then it doesn’t matter to me what kind of views they have, I am not bothered with that.”

Pakistan’s 13,000 madrassas have been under increasing scrutiny since the London bombings highlighted the extremist links of some schools.

Molly, who is expected to board at the seminary, was sceptical of an offer by her mother, Louise Campbell, to drop her attempt to take her back to Scotland. Lawyers for Ms Campbell, 38, told the Supreme Court in Pakistan that she would abandon her attempt to gain custody in return for regular access to her daughter and telephone calls. Nahida Mehboob Ellahi, Ms Campbell’s lawyer, told the court that her client wished to negotiate an out-of-court settlement.

Ms Campbell was no longer insisting on full custody because of the “mental and psychological strain” of fighting the case, she said.

Molly, who did not attend the hearing, appeared suspicious of the offer, which comes weeks after a judge in Lahore ordered her to be sent back to Britain. Her father is appealing against that decision in the Supreme Court. She said: “I don’t want to meet my mother. She made me do things which I didn’t want to do.”

Flight, claims and courts

August 25 Molly, her sister and father board an aircraft for Lahore from Glasgow

August 28 Police investigate possible abduction

August 29 Louise Campbell, appeals for Molly’s safe return

August 30 Friend claims Molly left of her own free will

September 2 Court in Lahore grants temporary custody to Molly’s father

September 19 Ms Campbell lodges a petition with Lahore civil court alleging Molly was taken illegally from Scotland

September 26 Father files court papers claiming no Muslim girl may be placed with an apostate mother in a sexually permissive culture

November 29 High Court in Lahore rules Molly is to return to the care of her mother

December 4 Molly’s father lodges an appeal

December 8 Supreme Court Chief Justice orders Molly to stay while her fate is decided



http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article/0, ... 33,00.html
 
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