I have a reasonable amount of experience of suicide.Sometimes it can be well planned and other times an impulsive act. People travel to areas they are not from for the scenic beauty or so no one they know may find them. People give away prized possessions, money, clothes etc. Some people will act normally, in fact their mood may be brighter because they have made their plan. Some people will be depressed, eratic or distressed, but we can never predict who will or wont complete suicide. I nursed a girl who got up one morning on the ward, had a shower, got dressed and ate breakfast. 45 minutes later she jumped of multi storey. Was there anything in her behaviour that raised any concerns?no there was nothing. Truth is we feel guilt when someone takes their own life and think that they really did not want to do it. But we never really know what goes on in someones head, even those closest to us.