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Hi, I am a new member, and I hope that I am placing this topic, in the correct place. If not could smeone please move it. :D
Ok where to start, oh yes, I have this "ghost" of which I have a name for, and she has been present in my house now for a good few years.
I found it frightening at first, but got used to the idea, as at the time, I would be awoken through the night, and usually it was for a reason. It culd have been something wrong with a family member, or suchlike that was ill or in need. I would know then that I would either got a phone call or someone knocking on my door. Many things.
The "help" I want as such or any info is that, as I call her a "she", I am not sure, and "she" has began "scratching" me and another member of the family through the night. This has happened on a few occasions, the last one being me, a couple of days ago.
I see "orbs" but not as you see on television, they are not always round or like that, but different shapes. This again does'nt trouble me.
I have seen now, twice some what I would call "black orbs" and I get the most terrible feeling inside me when I do, see these.
Anyone out there that can give me any aadvice, or suchlike.
I have tried "openly talking" to the "ghost". Sometimes it works others it doesn't.
She has a bad habit of taking things, and hiding them. Sometimes, I may get them back, others i may not.
So anyone with similar probs as such, could you please let me know I am not ging totally bonkers. !!!! Thanks :D :D
 
Has anyone else in your house experienced this 'thing' and have thought about taking any photographs etc?
 
cheers for replying.
Yes there has been the other person in the house that has "seen" an orb a few times, he has even been "scratched " too, and wonders, whats happening.
There is a number of inncidents, too long to put on here, you would fall asleep reading them.
When my daighter comes round to visit, she senses, all the time. I need saw nothing. Have not taken any pics, been too unexpected have the orbs. What about a video? I have thought of that, but have the lights off for bed, and it would not pick up in the dark, as not an expensive one.
My daughter and her daughter, are the same.
My daughter, has so many problems in a flat close by here, over happenings to my Grand daughter. At one stage, they did have some Para people round, and they took the video of what they saw and gave it back, but with "certain parts" removed. That settled down for awhile, when they moved.
 
What 'certain parts' do you think were removed and why? Further, do you and your family believe in all the psychic stuff? Just asking so that I can get a handle and then try to find a (one of probably many) solution :D
 
Hiya, sorry I seem to be asking some advice, then end up, going onto another thing.lol
Ok I have been rather since "very young" able to see certain things, like people and suchlike, yet at that age, I was not aware they were "dead", if you get my drift.
As I grew up I realised all this and became obviously aware, but have always "sensed" when I go into a house or elsewhere, the "feel" of it being good or not good.
My daughter, at only 3 years old, would describe a little girl waking her up, through the night. This I took as a Dream, she may be having regularly, but one day she drew something, and it was a picture of this little girl, and why she was waking her, we had "blocked off" an area up the top of this old house where we lived.
After I had a very long serious operation, in london many years ago, and it lasted 22 hours, I actually "died" and I could "see" myself and all the specialists and so forth rushing around, loking down at them from the top corner of the operating theatre, well I recovered or hell, I would not be writing this. Since then I have been extra "open" and "aware", odd feeling it is.
OK my daughter, when she had a litle girl, also, she lived close by in a flat. Thats my grand daughter, and she was about 3 or 4 when she bagan having serious problems , same time each night, and could speak quite well, also in her words explained, about a little girl also , and it went onto a little girl and a woman, wanting her to play and go with them.
Eventually we contacted this "para" place and they came out, checked we were "sane" I think, and took up residence for a night, after a few visits.
The video, quite simply showed, a shadow, of something. I don't know what. It showed the duvet cover, being "prodded", by nothing that could be seen, and then the duvet cover was being pulled back slowly, again by nothing that could be seen. This we all saw, and these para peeps, well asked to take it away, so they could "study" it. We thought no problems, as one would.
When they visited next, they gave the video back, and said that they had a chat about it,, and decided it was "night terrors" she was having.
When looking at the tape again the parts of the shadow and prodding, plus moving of the duvet had been removed!! :shock: :shock:
So as you can see, seems to go in the family.
sorry so long this post .
thanks for replying quickly.
and gosh I don't fancy getting "scratched tonight", so got my fingers crossed.
see a right mess here.......
 
i think that the first thing you should do is learn some protecting and grounding exercises if it has gone to the extreme of being sratched which thankfully isnt common in alleged hauntings. then when you feel sufficiently protected tell the 'presence' in no uncertain times to leave. sounds too simplistic i know but certainly worked for me before! you might want to get a copy of Psychic Protection by Cassandra Eason.
 
Thankyou for your reply, and I will certainly look for that book.
:D :D
Well NO scratches last night. yippeeeeee :D :D
I would like to know more about this "ghost" make sure it is a woman or what, as "she" HAS "helped" me in afew ways as I put in my first post.
I don't want all the technical peeps in my home, and also someone said to me "get an exsorcism done" :shock: :shock: I didn't know one could.
Also on enquiring about the "Black" orb i have seen a couple of times, I was told to "beware" as it is a "bad" one, so dos that mean it is possible for another "ghost" or suchlike to come into my home.
I have been wondering, as this black orb, has only been seen, by me since someone, in my home dug up some bones, and they were apparently very old too.
thankyou one again. :D :D :D :D
 
have not heard about black orbs before(!). i think it may be a bit rash to say that they might be evil spirits and that an exorcism is required. plus an exorcism would be useless if neither the householders or mabe even the spirit herself arent god-fearing. at least the orbs cannot be described as light reflecting off dust motes! perhaps you had better let the technical chaps in afterall.
 
A simple way to get rid of presences is to start to think very scientifically and sceptically. Over the years I have noticed that these things do not seem to happen very often to those of an empirical bent. My first suggestion is to get in contact with your 'para' people and see (via sneaky discussion) if they a) remember the clips on the video b) why they were removed. From this perspective, I would then ask myself if what I am seeing is down to my misinterpretation of light and shadow etc. If the nasties keep occuring (eg the scratches and so forther), then get a good camera off a friend and start filming it. If you have any genuine phenomena, you may even be able to make cash out of it (see Mr Randi's million dollar prize). :D :D :D
PS. Here's hoping that things calm down around the house for you! :D
 
Hi and thanks for you advice :D It was a while ago now with my daughter and Gread daughter, but did put that in the post I wrote, as it seems to be in the female side,of the family.
I will try find that book, as I have not heard that one can "protect" themselves as such.
I have ruled out the dust particles, much to strong. Also the shadows, well nope ruled all that out, via doing various checks, and moving items around that may possible cast a shadow, and also because it is "moving" too. :shock: I have no one that could be moving about or suchlike.
I think in every posible way, I have tried to eliminate the "why/whats/wherefores and each time came up with the same. It is "something". The "black orb" i have seen, i sense and feel, it is not good thats all. With the "normal orb", I have no sense of fear or anything, infact just the opposite, until the "scratches" beagn. :roll: then it made me more wary.
I will try and see if I am able to "set something" up to video, and see what comes from that.
In the meantime, thanks again. I was expecting a lot of "jibes" and possible "don't be silly or stupid" flying at me, in replies, and am so relieved it hasn't been so.
Great bunch of people you are.
 
Tell it to go away and stop bothering you.

Seriously. I'm not being flippant or anything like that. I've found that some 'things' want attention, and if you give it to them, they just crave more. If you ignore them, they get frustrated. So it's a half way thing; like saying, "Yes, I know you're there, but you shouldn't be. Now bugger off and leave me alone. I haven't got time for you."

Stop noticing. Stop looking. Then it will go away on its own. Making a fuss about it just makes it stronger. Being scared of it is even worse. I had very similar things happen to me, but after spending one evening scared out of my wits, when it started again the very next night, I just told it to f*** off and stop bothering me. I wasn't scared anymore; I was just bloody angry. But it worked. It calmed down, and it left me alone.
 
Tell it to go and haunt your friend 'scargo in Cheshire. We love ghosts up here. :D
 
:lol: :lol: thanx for your replies. I haven't openly told "her" to go away. I have shouted at her about the loss of my book, and thats the one i found soon after on the floor, so seems to have got the hint there.
"She" has been more noticable recently, especially since the scratching episode, maybe because when my daughter popped round, I showed her then and told her.
Good Idea i will deffo give it a bash, nothing to lose except unwanted scratches. :lol: :lol:
I wouldn't wish it on anyone, but if you want a visitor, your welcome to her or them.. :lol: :lol: :lol:
 
Telling them to bugger off is one thing, but you have to mean it. Otherwise, they just come back. Mainly because you're looking for them.

Either way, paying them any attention is only any good if you can handle them paying you attention. Otherwise, just tell them to clear off. Outright ignoring them can just make them a tad frustrated sometimes. So, like I said, it's a case of telling them that you know they're there, but you don't give a stuff. You want them to clear off. Be firm. And mean it.

Otherwise, it's scratches, see.
 
got that Ravenstone. I will deffo be able to say that and mean it. It has taken a week for these scratches to go, and am not best pleased at all.
You posted earlier about ignoring the spirit, well actually , I have been and not mentioning her, as used to. I see the orbs and the other things, but haven't been mentioning it to anyone just taken it onboard so to speak, and they became more frequent. Maybe thats why this happened, and I am certainly going to give it a try.
She or he has been here for a while now, so i do hope that, whatever it is moves on.
One question I haven't asked anyone, sorry....
Is there the possibility that the "spirit"or whatever, could actually "follow" someone that has visited me. I know may be me going mad, but have had a problem with this, but "it" has always returned.
 
Yes, I believe it's possible.

The scratches then are probably it trying to get your attention. Just tell is firmly to bugger off.
 
Well, supposedly a spirit can follow you if it wants to, so I see no reason why it couldn't follow somebody else.....
 
I'm serious, send it to my house. Direct it to Cheshire, UK. I'm sure it'll find its way from there. ;)

I ain't 'fraid of no ghost. :lol:
 
RainyOcean said:
Well, supposedly a spirit can follow you if it wants to, so I see no reason why it couldn't follow somebody else.....
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unless of course, as Del boy would put it, the spirit is 'grounded', trapped in the atmos. you know the kind of thing, poor waif like maid killed by her master, trying to find her lost thimble, can't do no sewing til she does, etc., etc.....
 
Hi why I asked if it was possible to "follow" someone, is because when my daughter comes round almost every day. It has happened on more than one occasion that, "she"( the ghost or whatever) has somehow "followed" her home.
Her house is fine, as such, I "sense" usually if anything is in a huse etc, don't know why or how either, but I do. This aticular day, she went to her bedroom, and the dog followed. My daughter saw a strong "black" sort of "mist" in the corner of the bedroom, and the dog, well, the "hairs on her back neck" stood up and she went beserk at it, till it had gone.It apparently was a moving type of Mist, difficult to exlain, as my daughter told me it looked like black sand, that suddenly went into the wall as such. My daughter was abit "freaked" by it, but again has got used to the fact that, it is possible that "she"(ghost or whatever) follows her sometimes. She is fed up of it, as doors open, by themselves,many other happenings. It has also, began with her eldest daughter, in her bedroom, Her friends won't "sleep over", because "things happen", that "spooks" them, as they have "seen" things happen, and although my grand daughter is also sort of used to it, others aren't.
Somehow, it doesn't frighten my grand daughter, as she, has, had many happenings, since very young, of which, i have posted on this thread, or somewhere else.
Seems we are plagued with "spooks" and stubborn ones at that.
I will send her down there if you want to Cornwall, but if she doesn't come, well I don't know. :lol: it's sort of laughable and cryable at the same time.
It seems, like a story, out of the TV, more than real life, and ,so much has happened, and not being able to tell anyone as such, that may understand, has been so frustrating.
Thanks all, :D
Just hope this makes sense.........
 
Well have a pic of the ring here, and as noted it states 975 on the inside, so do not think it is very old, unless you know differently. Maybe "she" might have taken it from elsewhere.
Those reading my thread, will know what this pic is about.
Any ideas anyone. cheers :D

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If my memory is right (I'm about 70% sure here) numbers without a makers mark are usually from modern Italian jewelry.
I think everyone else had and still does put a makers mark on them as well.
 
925 is a fineness mark for silver. Othermarks can be found at the following link. link
 
It was Ravenstone I think, who suggested assertiveness and I agree. This is our dimension. We don't consciously invade theirs, or most of us don't. Some people apparently attempt to assist discarnate spirits, or whatever they are, just as some spirits reportedly attempt to assist the living; fine and good if it's by mutual agreement and has a positive intent. When it comes to malicious or otherwise troublesome entities however, it's worth trying to end the problem by demanding they leave you alone. After all, we don't allow total strangers to burst into our homes and lives and disrupt and frighten everyone.

If I sense something unwelcome these days, I mentally repeat 'No. No' in a determined manner and close my mind. Don't know how to explain how I close my mind. I did it by accident once; probably instinct. It worked and afterwards I was able to do it at will. Similar to closing a door and meaning it.
 
They definitely like attention. Once you get frustrated and tell them to go, they sometimes take the hint.

I had a friend who claimed to have a ghost in his home, and he wondered if it wasn't an A-hole of a dead uncle.

I stayed one night at his house, and slept on the floor. I saw and heard something coming down the hall from under the door as I lay there. It was a sort of shadowy but transparent presence, and I heard breathing and footsteps.

It stopped outside the door and I heard the breathing steadily. I was really tired and irritated, and I basically told it to p*ss off, because I was in no mood. Then it went away.

As a side note, his mother claimed to be able to see the dead as clearly as the living, and often saw them just hanging out in cemeteries and such. She just ignored them for the most part.
 
sorry if i upset the fan club but i'm a little concerned.

If your seeing hallucinations (black orbs and shadows), suffering forgetfullness (losing things) and feeling displaced (things not quite right), it may be worth a visit to the doctor. And before you jump down my throat and tell me its your daughters as well, these things can be heredatry and passed down with similar symptoms. Not necesserly life threataning. You don't have to tell the doctor youre living in a haunted house! just use the terminology i used.

It would seem you actually want to have this spirit friend around but want to control it. Is it company for you? If you want it to go away try not acknowledging it in any way. If you don't want it to go away then explore why you don't and what you are needing in your life.

I wouldn't recommend paying anyone to check out your haunting, either mediums or para-psychologists, you could leave yourself wide open to being conned out of money. there are some ruthless people out there.
 
Thanks Mah for also replying. They are not * hallucinations*.. :shock: hell I wish they were sometimes.
I have an "open mind" about spirits and suchlike, because of various things, that, have happened to me. Too many to "go into", on here.
Living where I am felt ok, and all fine, but for a few years ago.
I tried, to dismiss, every conceivable thing, that it could possibly have been, before, coming onto the forum, to ask.
This is not something, that one, always wants to mention, hence from your view, that it may be something wrong medically....... I am ok in that department.I am utterly, totally insane....well I feel it trying to explain myself on here....to the ones that do not beleive. :oops:
No joking apart. I do not wish, this to happen here, and I do not, wish to see "orbs", wether they be black or white, or any other colour, that may possibly be.
I did seek help, a couple of years ago, asking a paranormal society about, what wa happening.They asked me every question in the book, from when I saw, to how my eyes were, everything.
They concluded that, I was seeing these orbs, and if needed, then to re contact them.
I am not happy, at the thought of, many people, coming in my home, with all sorts of equipment, and the cost as you say, would probably be extreme.
My daughter, has children of her own, so she is not young, and as I explained, in one of my posts.When she saw this "black thing" in the corner of her home, it frightened her silly.
The dog "picked up" on it, and was going beserk too. So should the dog need a medical too ?????
I do not think, that, there are any people that wish to be "scratched", in their sleep, and a "mess" left the next day.
I do not, like having this "person" or whatever around, it is an intrusion in my thoughts, but, what else can one do. :?:
I am told to tell it to B****R off and suchlike. That, I have been doing, and, totally ignoring any sightings, I have been seeing. I have not been mentioning anything, at all, about it, to anyone, so that somehow, someway, it might go away.
It seems "unfair" to judge someone, that comes to ask for advice, of which, is not an easy subject, to approach.
I do not wish to have a "fan club", and that is hurtful, to write that.
All I can suggest is, that if it were you in the same predicament, then, you, yourself would understand.
I presume, you have NOT had anything like this happen to you then?????
If you had, then, I am sure, the reply would be much more of an understanding nature.
May you be lucky enough, not to experience, anything like this.
 
don't take offence, the fan club is those who want to believe so much that they don't consider any other option and think they are qualified to give advise. this was not directed at you in any way but at those who where, in my opinion, not offering an alternative explanation.

My wife suffered migrane all her life, one of the symptoms was seeing blobs floating and flashes of light, restless nights, occasional forgetfullness etc etc.. after a serious car accident they found she had a hole in her heart that had always been there. after surgery she has had no problems at all.

Your description of events sounded similar and i was concerned that you where jumping to the paranormal befor the natural. If you haven't checked with a doctor, please do.

i'm concerned that by seeking help you contacted a paranormal society. This could mean that you had already decided that events where supernatural.

To all those offering advise, please try and be as open minded about normal as you are about the paranormal.
 
Other questions, sidekick

I apologize for the delay in my own response since I know people with similar abilities, I've been vacationing and stuff <g>

Sidekick,
The bright orbs could be akin to your spirit guides. They will stay with you, and possibly help you deal with some of the other spirits. (I'm not sure of your level of ability, but communication with them is possible for some people; of course, sometimes the orbs don't shut up). Can you communicate with them?

Request guidance from the bright orbs regarding the shadow orbs. In my experience, the shadow orbs are up to no good; and they are most likely the ones doing the scratching. Do they all look somewhat circular, or do some of them have different shapes, or look like any kind of animal/being?

For your daughteror grandaughter, do they communicate also with the orbs? How much have you discussed with them the possibility of getting information for the orbs, and let them move on?

For the dead people that you see, do they try communicating with you? Do you ever visit someone's house, and get a message you do not understand; and then relay it to someone who lives in the house who understands it?

Animals, and particularly cats, are able to see the orbs sometimes. So they may follow it/them around the room and meow at it. To others it would look like they are meowing at nothing.

Blessings on your house, and your daughter and grandaughter as well.
 
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