Schwadevivre
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This is too serious for chat and not News enough for Mainstream News
It Shows up in the Reddit Thread Women of Reddit, when did you first notice that men were looking at you in a sexual way? How old were you and how did it make you feel?
I was already aware that harassment was pretty rampant but thought that only a very few women were so objectified but from this you realise that many are regarded sexually at ages as young as 8, 9 and 10. This is a massively long comment thread (over 21,000 comments) and most responses seem to be from American women, but a few are probably British. The actions that these women recall would be inappropriate if directed at an adult let alone peripubescent children.
Some samples:
h/t to "We Hunted the Mammoth"
It Shows up in the Reddit Thread Women of Reddit, when did you first notice that men were looking at you in a sexual way? How old were you and how did it make you feel?
I was already aware that harassment was pretty rampant but thought that only a very few women were so objectified but from this you realise that many are regarded sexually at ages as young as 8, 9 and 10. This is a massively long comment thread (over 21,000 comments) and most responses seem to be from American women, but a few are probably British. The actions that these women recall would be inappropriate if directed at an adult let alone peripubescent children.
Some samples:
Comment by Reddit User Intoon
I was 8, had wandered away from my mom at Kmart. A creepy 40 something white guy in construction attire stared at my chest and butt, and followed me all around the store. I even went into the changing room to get away from him (stupid idea I know, but c'mon, I was 8!) he FOLLOWED ME INTO THE CHANGING ROOM. Tried to pull and shake the locked stall door open that I was hiding behind. I sat, curled into a ball on the changing seat, staring at his dirty work boots just on the other side of that door, terrified. Thank god a woman walked in to try on some clothes, saw him, and screamed at him to get out. After he had left, I ran out and found my Mom.
From Reddit User Cuddlebunz
I remember the first time pretty clearly. I was a mix of scared/angry/confused and I was only twelve years old.
I was waiting at a bus stop alone, when a guy who was probably in his late twenties/early thirties came riding past on his bike.
He slowed right down and whistled at me. When I ignored him, he turned on his bike and slowly rode right past me. I remember being pretty freaked out at how he leered at me.
Twelve year old me had no idea what to do. He turned around and rode by again. Luckily a woman showed up to the same stop so I moved to stand near her. He finally rode off when he saw I wasn't by myself anymore (or maybe was bored I wasn't responding?)
From user WinstonScott
When I was 12, my mom and I were at a small, carry-out only restaurant waiting for our order to be ready. This older guy, who looked like he was about 20 came in. He just stared at me, open-mouthed. I had to walk past him to fill my drink, and he said, "Hey baby. Give me some of that T & A." I didn't even know what T & A was! He even positioned himself so I would have to walk past him again when we left the restaurant, and he made another comment where he called me "Princess."
User Justkeeper91
I was about 10. I was terrified. Who the fuck cat calls/follows a 10 year old? I'm more than sure my lion king back pack and light up shoes were an indicator I wasn't of age. "you're so pretty I just want to talk to you." While walking home from the bus stop. Terrifying. Sadly men became more aggressive once I turned 14, I literally had a guy chase me down the street. I hat to run to a neighbors house.
h/t to "We Hunted the Mammoth"