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This is a personal history of my own experience with hearing loss. It is not intended to be a blanket view of the deaf community, but simply my own experience. The reason it is posted here is because hearing loss is a 'big thing' in regards to technology and some big gains have been made in the attempt to restore hearing both in newly born deaf and those who have lost their hearing later in life, I am one of the later.
I lost my hearing (in both ears) at the age of 16, and remained profoundly deaf until the age of 20 when I lucky enough to be offered a cochlear implant.
Prior to my implant, I attempted to integrate into the deaf community, but this was hard, given that I could not 'sign' I did attempt on multiple occasions to learn it, but was turned away with the excuse that funding was reserved for those who where born deaf. I could not understand the reasoning behind it, but accepted it, and to this day have not been granted the full funding that born deaf people are granted. I do not know if this is a regional phenomena, but that is how I have been treated.
Getting back to the subject at hand, I did make a few deaf friends prior to my implant, and we communicated via lip reading and writing. When they found out that I was getting an implant, these people I had made friends with, where quite outraged. They told me that there is nothing 'wrong' with being deaf (and indeed there is not) and that by attempting to restore my hearing, that I was sending out a message that being deaf is something that needs to be 'fixed'.
I attempted to explain that there is NOT anything wrong with being deaf, but that it would be preferential to hear (why would you want to go without a sense if you don't have to), they found this quite offensive. And told me in no uncertain terms, that if I wanted a cochlear implant, I would no longer be a friend of theirs.
I got it anyway, and have seen a dramatic change in my life, I can now communicate fluently with family, strangers and friends. Something that I struggled with prior to this greatly. It has basically given me a whole new lease of life.
I am saddened to say that the friends I made in the deaf community have turned their back on me, and told me that I am turning my back on the 'community' by attempting to hear better (that I am saying there is something wrong with being deaf)
No matter how I try to explain it, they do not want to listen, most of these people have never heard music (something I have loved for as long as I can remember) and are even in favor of genetic manipulation to alter their children to be born deaf (to me this is abuse, and insanity to the extreme, - they even made a court case out of this.)
I don't know how many (if any) deaf people read this forum. But given my experiences with the deaf community (in Liverpool at least) it has been cutthroat and unyielding in its stance in regard to cochlear implants (yet totally accepting of none surgical hearing aids)
This is the purpose of my poll, to get a wider view of whether cochlear implants are seen as an aid or insult.
I lost my hearing (in both ears) at the age of 16, and remained profoundly deaf until the age of 20 when I lucky enough to be offered a cochlear implant.
Prior to my implant, I attempted to integrate into the deaf community, but this was hard, given that I could not 'sign' I did attempt on multiple occasions to learn it, but was turned away with the excuse that funding was reserved for those who where born deaf. I could not understand the reasoning behind it, but accepted it, and to this day have not been granted the full funding that born deaf people are granted. I do not know if this is a regional phenomena, but that is how I have been treated.
Getting back to the subject at hand, I did make a few deaf friends prior to my implant, and we communicated via lip reading and writing. When they found out that I was getting an implant, these people I had made friends with, where quite outraged. They told me that there is nothing 'wrong' with being deaf (and indeed there is not) and that by attempting to restore my hearing, that I was sending out a message that being deaf is something that needs to be 'fixed'.
I attempted to explain that there is NOT anything wrong with being deaf, but that it would be preferential to hear (why would you want to go without a sense if you don't have to), they found this quite offensive. And told me in no uncertain terms, that if I wanted a cochlear implant, I would no longer be a friend of theirs.
I got it anyway, and have seen a dramatic change in my life, I can now communicate fluently with family, strangers and friends. Something that I struggled with prior to this greatly. It has basically given me a whole new lease of life.
I am saddened to say that the friends I made in the deaf community have turned their back on me, and told me that I am turning my back on the 'community' by attempting to hear better (that I am saying there is something wrong with being deaf)
No matter how I try to explain it, they do not want to listen, most of these people have never heard music (something I have loved for as long as I can remember) and are even in favor of genetic manipulation to alter their children to be born deaf (to me this is abuse, and insanity to the extreme, - they even made a court case out of this.)
I don't know how many (if any) deaf people read this forum. But given my experiences with the deaf community (in Liverpool at least) it has been cutthroat and unyielding in its stance in regard to cochlear implants (yet totally accepting of none surgical hearing aids)
This is the purpose of my poll, to get a wider view of whether cochlear implants are seen as an aid or insult.