Aydee_Aitchdee
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Make sure you get it on video so Uncanny can debunkI grow more Fortean by the second, I could eventually implode.
Make sure you get it on video so Uncanny can debunkI grow more Fortean by the second, I could eventually implode.
As far as Ghost Hunting shows go. . . poor seems to be an understatement.I'm coming 'round to this myself, but the decline in my interest has more to do with the melodramatic and fake bullshit piling up faster and faster. I can't even watch ghost hunting shows any more, they've lost their allure.
And I'm annoyed.
I think that's a personality thing - all of my kids would have been at the window in a flash if we'd had foxes on the lawn.
Well yes, but my children were all born before smartphones were ubiquitous. So almost all the time they were growing up there WERE no smartphones, iPads, laptops etc. They had one computer in the house and that was on dial up internet. So they weren't paragons of fabulous curiosity - they just didn't have access to anything more interesting than foxes in the garden.I teach students from, currently, ages seven to twenty-two.
If there's one thing I want to scream at un-ignorable volume to every parent I meet it is:
Under no circumstances give your child a smartphone or tablet to use unsupervised.
A minority of those who ignore this advice will dodge the bullet, but honestly, most children will quickly become addicted to a greater or lesser extent. What usually follows is that access to screen-time becomes the focus of all interest, alternative activities and tasks being viewed as odious to the exact degree that they obstruct access to the favoured device. Naturally, use of said device then becomes a bargaining chip in negotiations with exasperated parents (heard last week: 'My son has no interest in anything'), which only serves to reinforce the device's status as the fount of all joy.
I do not exaggerate when I say I regularly meet young people who visibly twitch when their screen lights up and obsessively check for notifications every minute; three-quarters of children I see dining with families in restaurants are using phones when not physically eating. More seriously, there are a good number among them who would rather watch something happening on their phone than watch that same thing happen directly before their eyes. Similarly, some would rather hear a voice on their phone than interact with the other children around them.
I use my phone for both work and pleasure, but there are crucial distinctions: I didn't have one until I was nineteen--and that was a decidedly unsmart Nokia brick. More importantly, I have willpower of steel (allow me the brag; it's one of my few actual strengths) and I know when to turn off and walk, talk, see and do naturally.
Phones and devices can kill curiosity in children.
*This has been a public service announcement*
I was getting a coffee in a shop today and while the barista, or what ever fancy name they give themselves, was serving a person at the head of the queue with seemingly endless cups of this, that and the other, the girl in front of me when I joined the queue was scrolling through her phone. She was maybe 17 or 18, it's hard to tell their age when you hit 60+. Then she put her phone in her back pocket. Then, well less than a minute late she looked at her phone again and scrolled through various stuff. Then, repeat the same action again and again until she got to the front of the queue. Even then, while her flat 'what ever' was being made, she looked at her phone yet again.There seems to be a lack of curiosity prevalent in people of all ages. Aside from wondering about a footballer’s latest haircut or the size of a Kardashian’s arse they seem to have no desire to know anything. Occasionally a TV programme, good or bad will stimulate some interest but there seems little desire to find out more about anything that has momentarily captured their interest. Why is that?
I worked with someone who witnessed a total solar eclipse when on holiday. He was full of it, telling anyone who’d listen – but all he wanted to do was go on another eclipse holiday; no interest in astronomy, lunar eclipses, etc. I took solar observation “specs” to work during the transit of Venus, and a lot of people were interested (They came back asking to borrow the specs again during the transit) but when I took binoculars in one evening to look at the moon or Jupiter’s moons, the reaction was very “Meh”. I can only assume that the transit was widely known to be a once in a lifetime event, the others weren’t.
I don’t get this lack of curiosity. When I was a kid, we all seemed to be much more curious about things. Partworks like “Look and Learn” and “Finding Out” had articles about all sorts of things not taught in school and must have sold quite well as they were going for a while.
Interest, if any, on a wide variety of subjects seems confined to what is fed to us via the TV or Web. If a subject is “trending” it’s OK to show an interest.
I wonder whether it is due to the introspective, doom laden society we now belong to? I wonder whether people think that easy answers are there on the internet so it isn’t worth questioning them or finding out more about them?
Either way I’m still curious. I want to know if there is a planet 9 or 10 and 11. What bigfoot is, if Thylacines still exist, what happened at Fatima, If Perkin Warbeck was Richard of Shrewsbury, etc. etc.
Thankfully, posters on here are still curious about, well just about everything. If we stifle curiosity, I really think we’ve had it as a species.
There seems to be a lack of curiosity prevalent in people of all ages. Aside from wondering about a footballer’s latest haircut or the size of a Kardashian’s arse they seem to have no desire to know anything. Occasionally a TV programme, good or bad will stimulate some interest but there seems little desire to find out more about anything that has momentarily captured their interest. Why is that?
I worked with someone who witnessed a total solar eclipse when on holiday. He was full of it, telling anyone who’d listen – but all he wanted to do was go on another eclipse holiday; no interest in astronomy, lunar eclipses, etc. I took solar observation “specs” to work during the transit of Venus, and a lot of people were interested (They came back asking to borrow the specs again during the transit) but when I took binoculars in one evening to look at the moon or Jupiter’s moons, the reaction was very “Meh”. I can only assume that the transit was widely known to be a once in a lifetime event, the others weren’t.
I don’t get this lack of curiosity. When I was a kid, we all seemed to be much more curious about things. Partworks like “Look and Learn” and “Finding Out” had articles about all sorts of things not taught in school and must have sold quite well as they were going for a while.
Interest, if any, on a wide variety of subjects seems confined to what is fed to us via the TV or Web. If a subject is “trending” it’s OK to show an interest.
I wonder whether it is due to the introspective, doom laden society we now belong to? I wonder whether people think that easy answers are there on the internet so it isn’t worth questioning them or finding out more about them?
Either way I’m still curious. I want to know if there is a planet 9 or 10 and 11. What bigfoot is, if Thylacines still exist, what happened at Fatima, If Perkin Warbeck was Richard of Shrewsbury, etc. etc.
Thankfully, posters on here are still curious about, well just about everything. If we stifle curiosity, I really think we’ve had it as a species.
That is true of many of us. At least the Northern wildlings have the Uncon. Wish there were a Fortean group around here. I’d be in like Flynn.Very few people of my RL acquaintance have even heard of Fortean Times.
Well yes, but my children were all born before smartphones were ubiquitous. So almost all the time they were growing up there WERE no smartphones, iPads, laptops etc. They had one computer in the house and that was on dial up internet. So they weren't paragons of fabulous curiosity - they just didn't have access to anything more interesting than foxes in the garden.
Age and gender are important variables here.I teach students from, currently, ages seven to twenty-two.
If there's one thing I want to scream at un-ignorable volume to every parent I meet it is:
Under no circumstances give your child a smartphone or tablet to use unsupervised.
A minority of those who ignore this advice will dodge the bullet, but honestly, most children will quickly become addicted to a greater or lesser extent. What usually follows is that access to screen-time becomes the focus of all interest, alternative activities and tasks being viewed as odious to the exact degree that they obstruct access to the favoured device. Naturally, use of said device then becomes a bargaining chip in negotiations with exasperated parents (heard last week: 'My son has no interest in anything'), which only serves to reinforce the device's status as the fount of all joy.
I do not exaggerate when I say I regularly meet young people who visibly twitch when their screen lights up and obsessively check for notifications every minute; three-quarters of children I see dining with families in restaurants are using phones when not physically eating. More seriously, there are a good number among them who would rather watch something happening on their phone than watch that same thing happen directly before their eyes. Similarly, some would rather hear a voice on their phone than interact with the other children around them.
I use my phone for both work and pleasure, but there are crucial distinctions: I didn't have one until I was nineteen--and that was a decidedly unsmart Nokia brick. More importantly, I have willpower of steel (allow me the brag; it's one of my few actual strengths) and I know when to turn off and walk, talk, see and do naturally.
Phones and devices can kill curiosity in children.
*This has been a public service announcement*
Set one up! It's what I did 25 years ago here in Edinburgh.That is true of many of us. At least the Northern wildlings have the Uncon. Wish there were a Fortean group around here. I’d be in like Flynn.
My bestie is so hard science that he can’t even listen to anomolousness. He’s not a bore, he just shuts out anything that isn’t Darwin empirical. Poor guy is really in the cult as far as sciencism goes.
Under no circumstances give your child a smartphone or tablet to use unsupervised.
I’m no organiser/leader. But if it was just a small group, maybe. Public library perhaps. Might think about that proposal.Set one up! It's what I did 25 years ago here in Edinburgh.
I would love to do something similar here in Witham, not a ghost hunting group, more a study and debating group, but there doesn’t seem much of an appetite for it nowadays. I don’t think I could attract enough people who would study it seriously.Set one up! It's what I did 25 years ago here in Edinburgh.
I think this is a major factor.I wonder whether people think that easy answers are there on the internet so it isn’t worth questioning them or finding out more about them?
I think you have it. Why waste time being curious when you can just Google it?I think this is a major factor.
When I used to work in pre internet reference libraries a good proportion of people showed an interest in where I'd found the information. By extension this gave them some idea of validity. If the answer wasn't clear cut then they they were given several sources. They would be curious about the method of finding what they wanted and sometimes what else they could find using those sources.I think this is a major factor.
I was thinking of starting a Fortean Fashions thread for just this reason, so many fringe aspects of Forteana seem to have fallen from favour. I'm sure the internet is to blame and perhaps also affordable long haul flights to places that were once far away, mysterious and full of monsters. Ufology is very much in fashion in the 21st Century but is tying itself in knots over military disinformation whilst ignoring the fact that all anyone sees nowadays is lights in the sky or triangles. Where have all those landed craft and humanoids gone?I still consider myself a Fortean but my way of thinking has changed over 40 plus years and I look at it all differently.
I am a hell of a lot more sceptical now than the “dyed in the wool” out and out believer that I was. And Fortean topics have greatly changed over the years. Cryptids and UFO’s seem to be the go to subjects now as opposed to a lot more of the subjects that manifested from the self; precognition, ESP, telepathy etc, which I was much more at home with.
If there is someone on the train in the morning who constantly sniffs, coughs openly or makes horrible personal noises, I still try to make their heads explode (think scanners) but have had little success. Similarly I am still trying to levitate the cars of people who fail to observe the rules of the road and try and run me and my pack down.
It has certainly been a journey for all of us who were around in 1970s and all that high strangeness, Nessie still a relic plesiosaur and seemingly imminent first contact with those extraterrestrials visiting us in their metallic craft with those flashing lights. Ufology had a revival in the 1990s with the X Files, Bonybridge and flying triangles etc but it is now more of a history project than active research. I respect those who dedicate their lives to cryptozoology, but the internet, air travel and globalisation have 'shrunk' the planet and now I can watch Simon Reeves streaming live from the Congo when I used to read about that dark, distant continent in a Heuvelmans's book. Also, to be blunt, there are those who will say cryptozoology is long overdue an actual significant discovery.I get that. After probably four decades of interest in the unexplained, I can't say I care any longer. I've been thinking lately I'm not actually a fortean anymore. I even considered starting a thread about it. I wondered how many others have had that realisation. Even in terms of being sceptical of science; I still am, but I've realised so are scientists. That's part of the process. And, time and again, when people deny the scientific consensus, when I delved in and looked at all the data I could, the consensus is by far the best supported. Yes, there are things science has relatively little to say about (even if some scientists say too much); ghosts, fae, mystery animals reported here and there, mysterious lights and alien abductions. But, in forty years, nobody else seems to have got very far with that stuff, either.
I'm sure when a flying saucer crashes into Big Ben, or bigfoot gets hit by a car and taken to hospital, I'll see it on the news, and be thrilled. Until then, it leaves me cold.
Age and gender are important variables here.
I have a group of friends who often go out to dinner together. A while ago we were happily chatting in a restaurant - mostly about science news. I guess we're basically University science nerds who've gone on to become grey haired armchair science nerds, but it gives us a shared interest to talk about.
Anyway, a bunch of attractive young women came into the restaurant and took the adjacent table. Did we notice them? Of course we did. We're guys. What do you expect?
Within minutes all of them had their phones out. Any chatter on that table died away. They all sat in silence thumbing their screens. No actual interactions with one another.
I don't think it was always that way. Groups of young women used to be noisy and cheerful as they all talked at once. But it doesn't seem to be happening as much these days.
So - old guys versus young women. I know which of the two was having the more social experience.
And yet, just like the early days of UFO reports of airships lassooing cattle, the phenomenae are explained away as just being out of reach.It has certainly been a journey for all of us who were around in 1970s and all that high strangeness, Nessie still a relic plesiosaur and seemingly imminent first contact with those extraterrestrials visiting us in their metallic craft with those flashing lights. Ufology had a revival in the 1990s with the X Files, Bonybridge and flying triangles etc but it is now more of a history project than active research. I respect those who dedicate their lives to cryptozoology, but the internet, air travel and globalisation have 'shrunk' the planet and now I can watch Simon Reeves streaming live from the Congo when I used to read about that dark, distant continent in a Heuvelmans's book. Also, to be blunt, there are those who will say cryptozoology is long overdue an actual significant discovery.
But, there is still so much high strangeness being reported and I am grateful for the Uncanny podcast for tapping into this and bringing witnesses out from behind their computer screens and onto the airwaves. It does seem that ghosts, poltergeists and time-slips are experiencing a renaissance right now and yes, some of it is explainable, but then that is half the fun. What has changed in the 21st Century is the way people report these things (or don't) and that has thrown up new challenges for those of us who once belonged to BUFORA and/or our local paranormal/UFO group as those networks are redundant now.
I personally don't agree with your stance but it is a good debate to have. For me, there is an external agent involved although this could be some sort of Earth energy rather than an intelligence (but my leanings are towards the latter).And yet, just like the early days of UFO reports of airships lassooing cattle, the phenomenae are explained away as just being out of reach.
Little Green Men from Mars are now Us, time travelling from the future Bigfoot is a shapeshifting creature that can disappear into another dimension. Just out of reach.
I would suggest the answer to all this lies in our own heads. To anyone who has woken up from a nightmare and a terrifying experience, ask ‘Why did my own mind do this to me?’