"Look, it might seem cruel, but I have decided that this is best for you. You have no choice in the matter and - in fact - no idea if this is morally wrong, but
my morals say this is what's best for you. Of course, you have no choice; I think it's good for you.
"It might hurt - I have no idea - but that's a price I'm willing for you to pay.
"You may not want it to happen - but *ahem*
it's for your own good!"
No one can ever really know, we can only hope, because we want good things for them.
So your 'wants' are more important than anything else?
Note: your use of the "WE" word indicates that you speak for everyone. And don't dare
say that you speak for the compassionate!
We are in the realms of speculation of (as I said earlier)
What is a ghost? You have the idea that they are lost souls that need rescue. What about souls that have been assigned by a Supreme Being to act as a warning until the End Days? What about those spirits have been
condemned by the Creator to walk the Earth?
"Well, I'm a nice person so I'll pray for their deliverence."
Knock yourself out, our kid. You do you. But - and this is my own personal concept - is that I
try to to do no harm to any living being. When it comes to ghosts, well, bets are off. By NOT wishing them into a lovely, happy place, are we being cruel? No. Are we obliged to wish only for the best for a lost soul in a swirl of existence? No.
"What harm can it be, if we pray for the lost souls that seem to be ghosts?"
Absolutely none. Rattle them bones, chant them words - if it makes you feel good then fine. If
you feel it is a good thing then fine.
But don't suggest that there's a moral imperative to do the ceremonies, the 'wishes' that you do.
Silly, I know, but I resent attempts for support for an attitude, especially when it comes to such a nebulous topic. It's a child, in a playground, testing out their beliefs in the hope someone agrees.
What ever happened to observing an event and not being obliged to interfere "because it was right according to my own beliefs"?