Have just noticed this thread; a thought or two, for what worth... I'd venture to suggest that the notion of Jesus having possibly been sexually drawn to his own gender; is not necessarily a horrific one, even in a context of traditionalist and orthodox Christianity. That creed holds -- if I understand rightly -- that Jesus experienced at first-hand, all the hardships and temptations common to humanity -- "a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief"; but was unique in his total withstanding of all the temptations which beset him. Christianity would seem generally to agree that Jesus was subject to the sexual urges which are felt by the great majority of the human race; but -- with marrying not being on the agenda for him -- successfully resisted them, and spent his life in perfect celibacy. It seems usually taken for granted, that his sexual desires were of the "hetero" kind; however, it would seem to make sense for his putative "playing for the other team", not to make an essential difference here. I believe it is accurate to say that traditionalist Christians -- except for a few maniacs among them -- opine that people who are by nature homosexual, can become Christians and receive salvation in the afterlife; just, those people are not to act upon these desires which affect them.
I recall hearing some fifty years ago, of some Anglican clergymen at the "progressive" end of their church's spectrum; speculating then, in addresses to the public, that Jesus might imaginably indeed been homosexual -- in the context set out above: inclined thus, but resisting the urge. This could conceivably be seen as one more of the many ways in which he was among the world's outcasts and generally-perceived "wrong 'uns"; whom he tended to find more acceptable, than he found those in the self-righteous-respectable brigade. Some criticism was levelled then at those clergy, on the basis of reckoning that many of their hearers -- less intellectually sophisticated than the reverend gents doing the speaking -- would be liable to misinterpret, along the general lines of "Jesus was a flaming queen, fnar fnar"; and to follow that thought in various imaginable wrong directions.