Are those the ones that are only moved by faith alone?
I have deep faith in the elastic.
According to the internet, being attracted to someone other than family starts 18 months to 2 years.
So it is not unusual in older life to have instant attraction to strangers.
This could be bad if a stranger is not a good person.
My wife says she knows people who did not do well because they were attracted to people who my wife thought were not right for her friends.
My wife saw a relationship break up because one person in the relationship became only interested in money.
But I guess as people say that is the free will of the person to do what they want.
I think I've written on here before about my lack of intuition about strangers (which maybe feeds into 'instant attraction' but is that thing in reverse). I've felt instant antipathy towards people. Just seeing someone on the other side of a room and thinking 'oh, no, I don't like the look of them.' And practically EVERYONE that I have had this thought about has turned into a close and dear friend.
Example, when I moved to Yorkshire, nearly 30 years ago, I joined a Mother and Toddler group. There were two women there who I thought were stuck up, overly involved with their children (helicopter parenting) and another whom I instantly disliked.
Thirty years later, one of them is my very best friend, and the other two were close friends until our children grew up and we all moved away from one another, although I recently went out for dinner with one of them.
I can only assume that the antipathy I felt came from them not being comfortable in the room (they, interestingly, were all also incomers, although one from only a few miles away), and not looking relaxed.