Hi, Anony.
You sound a lot more capable than me.
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'I can remember being 2 & a bit.' -
I can't really recall anything before 5 years.
'I can't remember not being able to read.' -
Same here.
'I can remember & sketch every floor plan of every house I've ever lied in from the age of 3.' -
I wouldn't even notice such things.
'I can remember quite accurately a lot of stuff, even if I didn't have the context.' -
Generally poor memory, esp.when not specifically interested.
'I had the reading age of 13+ at age 8.' -
Much the same.
'Mental arithmetic ok/must visualise some numbers as colours.' -
Very poor Maths.
'I get very interested in some obscure stuff.' -
Similar but my interests are limited.
'I care very deeply about people & their situations, too much empathy at times.' -
Same. The 'autists=no empathy' myth is prejudicial.
'I can zero in and zone out a lot of the extraneous guff, & am very good at prioritising & doing things in order of importance/logic.' -
I'm very disorganised.
'Adverts make no impression on me.' -
Same here.
'I can speed read.' -
I can read in a novel a day; then forget...and, sometimes, buy the novel again(!)
'I get a bit impatient at people not seeing/realising things or focussing on the subject at hand.' -
Am usually exceptionally slow on the uptake. My perspective is often unworldly/naive.
'I just seem to absorb stuff by reading/hearing/seeing about it.' -
The world acts upon me, rather than me being proactive.
'I have trouble with loudness, or certain kinds of loud, sudden or piercing noises. I swear my ears actually internally 'flex', I feel this as a kind of pain that doesn't hurt(?)' -
Similar. I wear ear defenders 24/7.
'I can be saying something politely, that I think is perfectly clear, fair and rational and logical - and the other person 'hears' something completely different to what I actually said! Do people actually listen to the words being spoken? I actually do, it's more important than the accent, tone in spoken speech to me.' -
With respect, we may not be the most-suitable arbiters of effective communication. However, maybe your intelligence makes you a little impatient with conversants - you're, perhaps, waiting for them to leap 'hurdles' (of thought) which you've easily cleared already.