I have been here long enough that I often don’t get past my alerts. Then, if I have time I go to new posts and then I’m off down more rabbit holesHere's what I do...
I click on the What's New > New Posts menu option.
This gives a list of all the Fortean threads that have new stuff (but excludes the Chat and Mainstream News Stories threads).
From the list, I have a look at only the ones that interest me.
Then I click on the Forums > Mark forums read menu option to clear the list.
But maybe I wouldn't have spent so many hours agonising and hating myself over how useless at Peopling I was. Maybe I wouldn't have spent so long trying to be something I'm not.
I work in aviation. Most people would probably be surprised by how many neurodivergent people work in the industry. In the nicest way possible, you're basically being kept alive by a load of people with autism, whose childhood obsession with planes has become their career.
Why are some of the questions virtually repeated in these tests?
What an interesting question.My favourite question from the test:
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A) Only in forests, mountains and ancient buildings.
Non-standard gender identity - I don't 'feel' a gender as strongly or surely as others seem to; I feel 'outside'
@Steven, remember that these "symptoms" are only a picture in time.I just don't seem to fit with many of the 'classic' symptoms e.g. am more likely to be silent and still rather than restless or fidgety. This isn't the right time for me to over-analyse.
only a picture in time.
Btw, I hate "average" and "typical". Such boring and unexciting terms to be labeled.
I am Groot!I use NT a lot because even though it contains the word typical, it sounds like the person resembles a big walking tree
I am Groot!
That sounds like ent-trapment to me.Just call me ent-wife
Honestly I don't see that you are any different to the vast majority of the population. Behaviours, feelings, emotions etc vary over time and circumstances for most people and if we were all identical it would be incredibly tedious. That' s not to say I'm dismissing how you feel about yourself, but as I age rapidly I've stopped over analysing myself and feel better for it.A question about traits in me which I suspect may be connected to my (likely) ND:
Mirroring behaviours - when around certain people, or even after watching some films or listening to some music, I find my personality, speech patterns, body language, interests, emotions etc becoming more aligned to the external influence around me.
Non-standard gender identity - I don't 'feel' a gender as strongly or surely as others seem to; I feel 'outside'
Ambivalent sexuality - changing/variable sexuality and long periods of asexuality or disinterest in sex, but also sometimes fixated interest in sex; confused sensory issues over sex making it mostly a 'meh' experience
Rotating fixations on hobbies - I will get super into something for a period of time (whether days or years), and then my interest will wane and I'll be crippled by boredom then find a new fascination, and so the cycle continues
Oversharing and over-honesty and transparency - generally finding honestly and transparency more palatable than dissimulation (a trait which can make me vulnerable or exploitable and which I should have learned to be careful about but haven't much)
Oddly highly sensitive to some emotions, whilst being high tolerance to others - For example, I'm extremely prone to fear (leading to things like hypochondria and anxiety), stress (connected to physical ailments like IBS, eczema, headaches, psoriasis, etc), and depression, but seem to hardly feel things like jealousy at all.
Are these the same for others?
Honestly I don't see that you are any different to the vast majority of the population. Behaviours, feelings, emotions etc vary over time and circumstances for most people and if we were all identical it would be incredibly tedious. That' s not to say I'm dismissing how you feel about yourself, but as I age rapidly I've stopped over analysing myself and feel better for it.
As for the oversharing thing I think this is more a female trait than for a bloke. (on this subject Ms P often says I'm a closed book - I try not to be but oversharing is not in my nature). I suppose what I'm saying is don't beat yourself up about who you are!