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The Mandela Effect: False Memory

That’s why I use self-deprecation, whimsy, absurd and surreal wordplay. It’s harder to pin down. Often, I don’t bother to make the point, I just lead people towards it and let them come to the conclusion.

Should they be arsed.
 
pandacracker said:
The sound of P and B are the made the same way but one is voiced the other unvoiced (like F and V, G and K etc)

Have I got that right @Yithian?
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Oh my, the letters we call 'b' and 'v' here are completely interchangeable in Nepali and (IIRC) north Indian Hindi. It's very confusing when participating in family conversations in Nep-lish* - are we talking about (for example) Bishnu bhai or Vishnu vhai? (two completely different younger male relatives with the kinship term of 'little brother').

Mr J can't really hear any difference in the sounds of the letters. Myself, I can't hear any difference in the 'th' used in eg., 'Kathmandu' and a plain hard t.

Totally off-topic as my memories are perfectly conguent about this :)

*alternatively Eng-ali
 
Luckily, during my degree course I have a very wide-range of reference material to search through. So I can usually find at least two sources of my information; if they've come from the same single source then I assume it'd be spotted by peer revue?
 
AnonyJ said:
Oh my, the letters we call 'b' and 'v' here are completely interchangeable in Nepali and (IIRC) north Indian Hindi.
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That's interesting because Spanish speakers (from Spain at least), say a sort of soft bu-vu so that very comes out as bvery.

There's also a connection in Hebrew as you can see from the two similar letters bet and vet - only changed by a dagesh (dot);
 

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brownmane said:
Exactly. When I first joined the internet world as late as 2009 (for school studies), I quickly realized how useless the internet is for any type of reliable information.

It quickly became apparent that any references I tried to cite for my essays that I had researched online would ultimately lead back to a single source. We know that this is not valid research when you only have a single source. I found the internet ridiculously useless for much well researched information.

Of course, now we refer to the echo chambers that many people are caught up in. This was apparent to me as soon as I tried to find information over 10 years ago. The internet was designed to do this.

People now are ignorantly unaware of how to source information and how to critique the veracity of what is told to them. One source does not make it true.
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And this is how truly appalling spelling errors are taking over.

I've just been over on Mumsnet. On a first post, the poster has misspelled 'sneery' as 'sneary'. One after another all subsequent posters have ALSO misspelled it as 'sneary'. I suppose that, with it being a word not often used, people have read it and wondered how it was spelled and whether they've been spelling it wrongly as 'sneery', taking the first post as correct and replicating the error.

Now there is going to be a whole cohort of people who misspell sneery!
 
catseye said:
And this is how truly appalling spelling errors are taking over.

I've just been over on Mumsnet. On a first post, the poster has misspelled 'sneery' as 'sneary'. One after another all subsequent posters have ALSO misspelled it as 'sneary'. I suppose that, with it being a word not often used, people have read it and wondered how it was spelled and whether they've been spelling it wrongly as 'sneery', taking the first post as correct and replicating the error.

Now there is going to be a whole cohort of people who misspell sneery!
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That's probably called 'progressive language!'
 
catseye said:
And this is how truly appalling spelling errors are taking over.

I've just been over on Mumsnet. On a first post, the poster has misspelled 'sneery' as 'sneary'. One after another all subsequent posters have ALSO misspelled it as 'sneary'. I suppose that, with it being a word not often used, people have read it and wondered how it was spelled and whether they've been spelling it wrongly as 'sneery', taking the first post as correct and replicating the error.

Now there is going to be a whole cohort of people who misspell sneery!
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And now you can heartily sneer at them :chuckle:.
 
I have heard some people (when speaking) using "weary" instead of "wary" a few times lately to describe being cautious/suspicious. I wonder where this began - is it that people are pronouncing wary in this way now? Is it an accent thing? I don't know. Or is it that the words have got muddled up somehow? I'm interested in the how and why rather than feeling superior to anyone else. I never confront anyone when I hear it as I don't want someone to think I am being a stuck up know it all.....I do find it puzzling.
 
catseye said:
And this is how truly appalling spelling errors are taking over.

I've just been over on Mumsnet. On a first post, the poster has misspelled 'sneery' as 'sneary'. One after another all subsequent posters have ALSO misspelled it as 'sneary'. I suppose that, with it being a word not often used, people have read it and wondered how it was spelled and whether they've been spelling it wrongly as 'sneery', taking the first post as correct and replicating the error.

Now there is going to be a whole cohort of people who misspell sneery!
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I've seen 'skiddish' more often than 'skittish' on horse sites in the last few years :(
 
Earthly oddity said:
I have heard some people (when speaking) using "weary" instead of "wary" a few times lately to describe being cautious/suspicious. I wonder where this began - is it that people are pronouncing wary in this way now? Is it an accent thing? I don't know. Or is it that the words have got muddled up somehow? I'm interested in the how and why rather than feeling superior to anyone else. I never confront anyone when I hear it as I don't want someone to think I am being a stuck up know it all.....I do find it puzzling.
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I wouldn't confront, as in challenge someone's pronunciation, but would ask if they mean wary or weary. They mean two different things and I need to know which in order to understand what they are telling me.

I know many people whose native language is not English. I don't think they feel that I am correcting them. We do have discussions about what word means what.

A person I have known for years and is Iraqi has a small company in which he publishes books translated from English to Arabic.

He will read a part of an article that has been translated by another to ask me if a word is used correctly. Often there is a slight difference in definition, but the way in which one or the other is used as an English speaker is very nuanced, but can change the tone or intent of what he wants conveyed.
 
I've always considered words important, and it's instructive of the way people use them.
Some are used to sound clever but, if used out of context, has the opposite effect. Sadly, when people carry on using the 'wrong' word it reflects badly on them too.
You don't need to correct the first user ... just use the correct one without comment.
It has been said that the words don't matter as long as the meaning is understood, but the incorrect use of words can corrupt that meaning and so the initial intent becomes incorrect.
 
Stormkhan said:
Some are used to sound clever but, if used out of context, has the opposite effect. Sadly, when people carry on using the 'wrong' word it reflects badly on them too.
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I try not to let it annoy me(!), but some common misuses of English do grind my gears somewhat.

TV presenters who say "I" instead of "me", just to try and sound more educated, are a prime example. "You're going to need to cook up something special to impress Gregg and I". Like fingernails down a blackboard...

I've noticed recently a tendency for people to say "honing in" when they mean "homing in". Is that language slippage, or just a mishearing?
 
Peripart said:
I try not to let it annoy me(!), but some common misuses of English do grind my gears somewhat.

TV presenters who say "I" instead of "me", just to try and sound more educated, are a prime example. "You're going to need to cook up something special to impress Gregg and I". Like fingernails down a blackboard...

I've noticed recently a tendency for people to say "honing in" when they mean "homing in". Is that language slippage, or just a mishearing?
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Is it honing, or homing? Or is there a distinct difference between the two?

https://usdictionary.com/idioms/honing-in/
https://www.merriam-webster.com/grammar/home-in-or-hone-in

Seems like you can use either-or?
 
Sid said:
Is it honing, or homing? Or is there a distinct difference between the two?

https://usdictionary.com/idioms/honing-in/
https://www.merriam-webster.com/grammar/home-in-or-hone-in

Seems like you can use either-or?
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Not sure. I reckon that the definition of "honing in" has been created retroactively (in "my" universe, at least) to justify the use of a possibly misheard phrase. Even that definition doesn't really distinguish the meanings of the variants.

To me, it's always been "homing", like a pigeon. "Honing" is more pidgin.

EDITED TO ADD: and I guess that's where we came in - different perceptions and memories.
 
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Peripart said:
I try not to let it annoy me(!), but some common misuses of English do grind my gears somewhat.

TV presenters who say "I" instead of "me", just to try and sound more educated, are a prime example. "You're going to need to cook up something special to impress Gregg and I". Like fingernails down a blackboard...

I've noticed recently a tendency for people to say "honing in" when they mean "homing in". Is that language slippage, or just a mishearing?
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For me it's the use of 'myself' instead of 'me' that's driving me nuts. However, I believe there is a pedantry thread somewhere on the forum, and I need to be pedantic and point out its presence before the thread is derailed.
 
RE: "My husband and I ..." misuse.
In my opinion, it boils down to it being used as a famous opening to the Queens Speech ages ago. People assume that was the correct usage; after all, the Queen didn't say "My husband and me ..." Absolutely correct, she wouldn't. However, if she'd said "It occurred to my husband and me that ..." this would be correct too.
So, erroneously, folks say 'My husband and I' when they really mean 'my husband and me'.
Isn't it the difference between a collective subject and a collective object?
 
catseye said:
For me it's the use of 'myself' instead of 'me' that's driving me nuts. However, I believe there is a pedantry thread somewhere on the forum, and I need to be pedantic and point out its presence before the thread is derailed.
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Common amongst footballers for some reason-

‘Degsy played a great through ball to myself & luckily I put it away’.
 
Peripart said:
Not sure. I reckon that the definition of "honing in" has been created retroactively (in "my" universe, at least) to justify the use of a possibly misheard phrase. Even that definition doesn't really distinguish the meanings of the variants.

To me, it's always been "homing", like a pigeon. "Honing" is more pidgin.

EDITED TO ADD: and I guess that's where we came in - different perceptions and memories.
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I see both as those words that have similar meanings, but nuanced moreso when used.

Homing in - I can understand as "aiming towards", or "directed towards".

Honing in - I can understand as "sharpening", or "making clearer".

In this sense, imo, the words are both being used to give the understanding that something is being described or defined into better detail or to bring a clearer understanding. But the nuanced understanding of each of these words gives them a totally different intent.

If any of that makes sense.:thought:
 
In fairness and an acceptance of a footballer being great at ... football rather than public speaking, I suspect that the usage is 'homing'.
They've probably heard managers, coaches, etc. using it in tactics.
And managers etc. aren't really 'wordsmiths'.
Proposition?
"I want to talk about getting a good sight on a goal and I got it."
Situation.
Interviewed shortly after the end of the game:
"(internal dialogue) I am aiming so 'homing' is suitable, yet I want to express my focus so should I use 'honing'?"
These guys are paid thousands per day for what they do and not their language usage.
Declaration: I've ever only used the word 'honing' when discussing the sharpening of blades. I understand the concept of picturesque usage ... but bollocks. Dancing angels on the pinhead of needles or whatever. ;)
 
brownmane said:
I see both as those words that have similar meanings, but nuanced moreso when used.

Homing in - I can understand as "aiming towards", or "directed towards".

Honing in - I can understand as "sharpening", or "making clearer"...

If any of that makes sense.:thought:
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Except that "honing" means what you say without the "in". I still feel that the phrase "honing in" popped up out of nowhere, fairly recently, but maybe (in a Mandela-adjacent universe) it's always been there.
 
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