catseye
Old lady trouser-smell with yesterday's knickers
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I have found a lot of these old 'ghost of my mother/someone I knew/there was no one else in the car at the time' pictures just come down to the person taking the picture forgetting when the picture was actually taken. In the olden days, when you had to finish a roll of film before you got it developed, we could sometimes wait months for a film to be finished, and, unless the pictures were of a specific time (holiday away, say, or a birthday party), it's fairly easy to think 'wait, this was taken after mother's funeral! And there she is!' when the picture was really taken a few days before mother died. And having had someone else around who was forgotten about by the time the picture was developed. There's a picture in my family album of a group of us with a 'mystery boy' on holiday, looking back it would be easy to say 'oh, it's obviously a ghost of a child from some part of the family', when really it's more likely we were playing with another child who happened to be in the photo but wasn't someone we knew, and whose existence was completely disremembered.